I have no idea what is happening to me. The last two Day 2s I have organised have flaked.

The latest is a girl I met through a friend at the pub. There is a group of girls my friend knows and there are a few nice girls in there. So I get talking to the least attractive one that night and a few words with the others and leave.

Next day I get her as a suggested friend on facebook so I add her. She accepts and then the next day the girl that Im actually attracted adds me. So I accept her and we get talking. I number close her with her telling me not to tell her friend(least attractive) one as she will get upset as she likes me.

So we exchange numbers and i leave it a day to text her. We text and its all flirty and good. She goes away up north for a few days to meet her sister and we are still texting. Now when I say texting its not instant replies, I actually wait a couple hours then reply and it all goes well.

Then on Wendesday I arrange a meet with her for Sunday night. She takes a day to think over it as she doesnt want to upset her mate. She texts me the next day and we have a chat and she agrees to come out.

Saturday night comes and she turns ill (we chatted on facebook late night) and she says she will text me tomorrow to see how she feels. She messages me and says maybe we can go another time as she still feels rough.

Now I know this could be all true, but how do I go with arranging another meet? Also she always used to message me first on facebook and now I'm online and so is she and nothing! Im sat here talking to her mate.

build up more rapport and comfort with em. They're more likely to better remember you and get all those feelings they had when you initially met.

Its a bit difficult though as the next time I will see her, her friend will also be there. So im kinda stuck to txt and phone as the meet up flaked.