So I went out last night and ended up being all alone. I was supposed to go out with some old friends, but they decided to stay home in the last minute.

Since I was already at a club I figured I'd make the best of the situation (which wasn't a problem since I'm very social and know a lot of people).

Opened a few sets to get started, had a lot of fun with it. One of the conversations rolled over to pepperspray, which was great, since it gave me an easy way to re-open later ("So, none of you have wished for a canister of pepperspray yet?" would be a rough translation).

Then I saw this gorgeous blonde girl sitting alone by a table and didn't hesitate. I went with the drug-dealer opener and I had her. Built up some kino, her friend came along, chatted with them for a few moments and got the number from the blonde girl. Now here comes the fun part, which was new to me.

About an hour after that encounter, I decided to call her to joke around a bit and give her my number. I stated the later fact and I noted that she sounded quite uncomfortable, I got something along the lines of "Yeah, I don't think I've got any use for your number" and hung up. Thirty seconds later, she called me back... or that's what I thought!

Me: "So, you couldn't even leave me alone for a minute?"
MAN (!): "You know, you're better off deleting this number, bub..."
Me: "Hah! Of course, bro. Had no idea the merchandise belonged to someone else." *click!*

Actually this is the first time this happened to me and reminded me of the fact that getting a number isn't a big deal. Anyone will give you their number if you point at them with your phone and hear the words "Give me your number".


Next up was a god-damned challenge. Two girls, me and my colleague. My friend is... I don't know -- I have to call it a natural. He's from Marocko, good-looking guy. Could probably be a model if he wanted to, but not very bright and inclined to sleep with everything that doesn't host a penis (which is probably why things work for him; his success rate is probably around 1/100).

I went for the other girl and... damn! She responded, I went with some kino, I displayed higher value and everything. Like gaming a brick wall!

I would've understood this behaviour from the blonde I numberclosed earlier; she had a boyfriend. This cute little dark-haired girl was just genuinely nice and single.

I got her to laugh, went with the occasional neg, touched her playfully, took a step back a little now and then, but never seemed to get anywhere.

Now there are two things about her:

1. She used to date my number one childhood friend.
2. She shot down any kind of qualification.

Ex.

Me: "I really like it when you smile -- good thing you do it a lot!"
Her: "Yeah, I know. Thanks."

Me: "blablawhatever--"
Her: "I know."

She eventually went home with her friend; leaving both me and my Marockan friend to ourselves in his apartment. We analyzed what just happened and laughed about it before I finished my whisky and went home to my empty bed.

Any tips, should this happen again? I'm thinking I might have to take a step too far and say something shocking. Any thoughts?

Hey bro! Sounds like a fun night even though it didn't all work out.

With the second cute chick I'm wondering if you built up any rapport. Just from reading your post sounds like you done all the things to work towards a number or kiss close but you didn't mention doing anything to get her to open up. If her responses were 'I know..' sounds like you weren't asking her anything about herself, but just negs and telling her stuff you noticed about herself. Girls love to talk, so, and this is only if you didn't do this, probe a bit and find out what she's interested in, what she really likes doing- maybe she has a job she loves, loves animals, is a big snow boarder or something. Use this to build rapport then esculator with kino. If a girl senses that all you are doing is hitting on her she tends to stay closed off, but if you show her that you're interested in her, her life and what she has to say, they open up more.

Plus, it sounds like you had a 'in', as you said she use to date your bestfriend. You can use things in common like this to get a girl to open up. I was in a club a few weeks ago with some dancers I know. I saw a cute chick started chatting to her, and as soon as I asked 'So do you know my dancer friends', she opened right up and started going on about how they've taught her this and that and blah, blah, blah and I just took it from there.'

Hope thats useful. Keep on keepin on! Sounds like you having fun!

Sure, it worked out. I went out to have fun and I had a lot of fun.

And the second one was a mystery to me. She was talkative and responsive, but every single time I tried to escalate she became a brick-wall.

Since I live in a rather small community I think the fact that I'm a close friend to her ex worked against me.

I also hit on her once when I was an AFC, so the memory probably built up another wall. I'm sure I could've taken her number, but she would probably have given me her number to be polite.

...

While typing this out I made a realization: I had ONE opportunity I didn't take.

She pulled me into my friends bathroom to show me her eye which was really red and swollen. We were alone and I could definitely have done something there, but I don't remember what I did... I probably had one drink too many and too little sleep to do a prime game.

That and the fact that I've got a lot to learn.

Thanks for the pointers though! Tgere are a few things you said I should keep in mind.