Hey,

well, I'm new to this forum, even though I have been around this kind of information some time.

Without bragging , I would like to introduce myself: mid-30s, multi-lingual, quite traveled, full of funny stories, interesting, can be serious, hold a PhD, but am also outgoing, social, musician, writer and (maybe too?) sweet to the ladies.

On the other hand, I am also soft around the edges (20 lbs), and not exactly what you call super-duper hot, even though I keep this aura of mysterious intellectual guy around me.

Now, I am really good when it comes to opening, introducing myself, charming, even getting into plenty of physical... but I really stink in keeping it up over an extended period. Usually after a few mails after the first night, I become clingy, less cocky and even "demanding" (I was just told last night that "I don't know if I can and want to live up to your expectations" from a girl that I got physicial with a month back and kept in contact over the internet).

In my defense, I would have to say that I am ALWAYS attracted to girls with daddy-issues that usually look for a sort of "savior". But the borderline "official" kooky kind, not the sweet kind.

Now, apart from changing my brand of women , what else do you guys do to keep up the attraction for an extended period of time (even after sex) as well as in relationships?


Thanks for the advice,


NuBe

Just do the opposite to the AFC stuff you've written above.

How do you get physical with a girl and then keep in contact over the internet?? It was definitely over after you got physical.

I think you know what your doing wrong here "clingy, less cocky and demanding".

Try speaking on the phone or in person if you're trying to start a relationship.

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