So theres this car chick i message to a few times, then yesterday shoot her a message cuz i asked about her car but its gone, i go "ahh ic, i was gonna say, we should get coffee some time".

her response "That sounds nice. But I'm super freaked out about this whole meeting people on the internet thing... =/ BUT coffee really sounds good soooooooooooo I'll give it a rain check "

What would be a good response to that?

WTF is she saying? Is she interested in taking it offline or not? Sounds like a rejection to me.

I think you could bust her balls about the contrary message. You could say something like "Hey are you twins? One good , one bad ? I'll let the positive one have coffee with me, the bad one can take a hike" or "Yeah, reality is soooo scary...meeting real people doing real things together...it's so less interesting than the internet"

i alreayd replied "i know what you mean, do you got aol?".. then she gave me her sn. Im not too seriously diggin this one, shes got 2 toddlers so yeah.. lol

It's a personal choice of course. With young mothers she could be really thinking long term. She's likely to be tired a lot. Best bit is that she probably hasn't sex for a loooong time.

yeah one thing ive noticed is alot of them dont club/party as much, so there wont be any temptations for them to cheat or mess around blah blah.

This has a lot of potential to turn into a penpal if you don't act fast. The second I see a penpal looming on the horizon i either drop her completely (case by case thing) or I increase the game on her. I can't stand those chicks that will msg back n forth for a while because she:

A. Likes the attention
B. Has no intention of actually meeting, but decides not to say that

i know what you mean,, i jus hurt myself on one of those, been talkin for 2 years but i never really cared about it so i didnt take it serious til the last month where she wanted to meet up and give me gifts/ do something fun *she showed me alot of IOIs.. then she hits me with committing to someone else *dude she likes who was gonna go to jail etc*, and i ask what happened to us meeting up, I tried to restart this by saying "lets meet up for a lil coffee" yadda yadda and then hits me with "I have no interest in you" and blocks me when i wasted hours of my time on that shit just to get shut down.

I dont really care much anymore, i do realize that you have to meet them ASAP to get it goin otherwise you do seal your doom. You can spend hours/days talking to them and even sounding like the PERFECT guy for them, but if you dont meet up ASAP then its no use. If i just wasnt a broke student id go out sarging alot and not really care.

The lessons of this are ... do not spend too much time and emotions on anyone especially before meeting in the flesh.
The other lesson is that you do need some money, though not too much, to sarge a lot.

Very true about partying if they are good mothers. They are dying for fun, however a lot can be very jaded or cynical, having been let down by the men who knocked them up.