Hey guys,

I am in a high school environment 5 days a week so I have lots of opportunity to game. But because it is a high school (I am a senior) I see more or less the same people every day - Its not like on the streets of a city where it doesn't matter so much if you fuck up cause 'you'll never see them again'.

Anyways, there are these 2 HB9 Blond juniors that I have wanted to meet since I saw them basically. I haven't met them yet only because I hold myself back from them every day. I don't want to fuck my approach up. Whenever I think of an opener to use, I think 'No, its not good enough it has to be perfect' etc. Thats the inner AFC coming out, I know.

Look, I just want to meet these girls.

Any suggestions / words of wisdom / words of encouragement / "suck it up and do it you pussy"?

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You've got to be willing to lose them. I usually can't stand the "Quit being a pussy and just do it" advice but thats what I'm gonna give ya.

Remember its a game. She wont shiv ya, you WILL learn something whether you're successful or not.

Honestly I would agree with the other poster, for the most part. You have to be willing to be rejected, in this game if you arent willing to take the risk you will never get the reward at the end. However don't fear rejection my friend, the worst that happens is that they are not receptive, and as long as your approach isnt walking up to them and whipping out your junk and just saying "sup?" I dont think anyone would ever find out about your possible rejection and it affecting you like you think it would.

A couple of points for you to keep in mind before you approach:

1. Pick a target ahead of time, otherwise when you setup a day 2 they will already have LJBF'd you in their minds, you could try to setup a double date with a wing or have them come to a party or something with you, but I would certainly pick a target first anyway.

2. Maintain a strong frame, confidence is key, and if you don't have it, then fake it till you make it

3. I would assume from your OP that they are good friends, if you can approach your target alone I would, this way you would have less to deal with by having to keep the other girl engaged the whole time as well.

4. Know when to pull out... make sure that you leave when the attraction temp is high, and don't stick around untill after you are out of things to say and it just becomes awkward. If this happens then it will severely hurt your N close chances and if you have already N closed her then it may never turn into anything. Remember, you want her to be craving more of you.

5. Have some sort of plan in mind, just because saying lets go to xxxxxxx sounds better then ummmmm can we do something sometime somewhere, think of something fun that you think she would be into and go for it.

Good luck and let us know how this all turns out for you.

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But the truth is, you have to do a LOT of wading and searching and trial and error before you meet a quality girl. There are so many stupid, emotionally fucked up, manipulative, shallow, uncultured, uninteresting, retarded bitches out there.