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Emailed a girl with this opener (skip if you dont wanna read it)

Well, you sound like you might be more than just another pretty face. Something tells me that you’re probably getting about 50 emails a day from loser guys saying things like “Hi, I’m a total ass with 5 kids but the good news is that I have a good chance at finally getting a job at the local mcdonalds…” etc.

In any event, I’m 20, have my life together, and I’m more than the usual amount of interesting and funny, so you’d better like to laugh. You sound like you might make an interesting friend, so let’s get together for a cup of something delicious and some interesting conversation… if you think you can handle it, that is!

She responds with

Haha that was pretty impressive!! ;DD Well thanks!! that did make me laugh!
So is there anything else i should know about you?? ;]] Wut you do on your spare timm??

IS she shit testing me ? or should i respond to the question. Any ideas on a respons ? Thanks

HiT,

You really need to double check the definition of a shit test. Dude, that was an awesome message you sent her and even more impressive it worked! Let's look at her message broken down.

"Haha that was pretty impressive!! ;DD Well thanks!!" <--- Indicator of Interest

"that did make me laugh" <--- Another IOI just in case you didn't get the first.

"So is there anything else I should know about you??"<--- Okay, this is actually another IOI believe it or not. Specifically this is one of the top three Indicators of Interest called - Reinitiating the Conversation. She is making an attempt to further the conversation with you!

";]] What do you do on your spare tim??"<--- Yet another attempt to continue the conversation.

Honestly, man she is really hooked. You basically got 4 IOIs back. Questions online are a way to further conversation and keep you talking to her which is what she wants. Let's not disappoint her by giving her shit about it or not responding thinking its a shit test. We need to use these questions to further DHV and start building some comfort.

Be thinking within the next couple of messages to moving this conversation to Instant Messenger or get her phone #. Then work your way up to setting up a date with the lovely lady.

Peace,

~Jon

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Thanks JSmooth for clarifying this for me. I need to start paying more attention to these things and rethink my online game aproach as well. You've been a great help!! Thank you

Dude, TEXTBOOK INDICATORS OF INTREST(IOI)

Good job man, The opener is awesome.

I'd just like to say I've been using a variation of your opener and its been successful 3/4 times now. Thanks.