Last Saturday, I went out sarging alone. Found a 21 yo hottie in the bar and started making out with her about an hour before closing time. She was hanging all over me. It was great. We made out off and on from then on.

Just so you know how cool this is for me, I'm 38. This chick was 21 and a solid 8 to 8.5. I'm probably a 9.5 or 10 for men in my age group.

Anyway, I tried to get her to go home with me about a half hour before the bar closed, grabbed her hand, started walking towards the door with "Let's get out of here." She resisted. Fine. We hang out in the bar a while longer talking about stuff.

A while later, the lights come on for closing time and I tell her to walk me out to my car. We get to the valet stand and I get ready to # close her. I ask her for her phone and she hands me this thing with the TINIEST buttons. I'm like, how do you type on this thing? She takes the phone and types in my number and saves it under my name. I tell her to call me right now, so I can get her number on my phone. As I'm getting into my car, she grabbed me for a final make out session.

Looking back, ALL I needed to do was point at my convertible and say "Get in". She'd have done it.

Anyway, she never called me. It's been 4 days. This shit gets a lot easier to deal with as you gain more experience and have proper expectations. The old me would have been eaten up with WTF, why isn't she calling, but now I know that F-ing up the number close was MY FAULT. I should have grabbed my phone and entered her number into my phone, but my regular MO is to save my #/name in her phone and then call mine for a missed call record.

Oh well. The really troubling part is, looking back, I'm like 90% sure this chick was looking for a one night lay and I'd bet even money she's got a serious boyfriend. I think that if I'd have just looked her in the eye, pointed down at my car and said "Get in, let's go for a ride, this cars really fun to drive" she'd have gotten in. If she resisted, the "come on, we'll just go for a 10 minute drive and then I'll bring you back"...I'm sure it would've worked. I FUCKED UP!!!!

NEVER let them take your number. They don't have the balls to call you. They WILL NOT contact you. Always get their number and play your phone game.

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Alphagame

Also worth noting, is that HB's with BF's are far less likely to be receptive to phone calls and such after your first meeting. It's one thing sweeping someone up in the moment and getting them to cheat on their partner in a whirlwind of passion, and quite another thing trying to push a BF destroyer over the phone in broad daylight.

Still we live and learn eh? If we knew everything we wouldn't be on a forum talking about it. Sounds like you did the groundwork well. It was basically in the bag, but the beginnings of her LMR got the better of you this time. "C'mon, lets have an adventure *cheeky smile* " might have been an option instead of "this car's really fun to drive". Get her heart pumping.

That's the most troubling part of this entire learning curve...women can't be trusted to be exclusive with their sexual partner/boyfriend/husband. They just aren't capable. If the right guy comes along and says and does the right things, those panties are coming off. Doesn't matter who she is or how much you trust her. They have no self control. They follow their emotions.

I think the only way around this is to date ugly women who won't get hit on much. Odds of them cheating are MUCH lower than if you date hot women.

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Alphagame