Hi Guys,

I thought I'd relay this to you. Hopefully I'll include helpful info and not the standard "I got her to suck my dick" Well that's fine and dandy but what did you do to do that.

From an online dating site I mailled this girl and we mailled twice I think before it switched to text chat online. I cannot think of anything unusual or any techniques used at all. She did jokingly(?) say she watched sex movies I think as a bit of a shit test for me. We switched to sms and the girl sent me a photo. The sms thing picked up a bit and we text each other a few days. The girl asked what I thought of her photo. I think I gave an ambiguous answer when she pushed for the answer.I accused her of being bossy. She didn't know what it meant so I text her a smartarse acronym.We arranged to meet via a chat online and I primed her read to do The Cube. At the meeting we had a drink and I started on the Cube. When she had sat down she revealed a short skirt and I could easily see her knickers. She quickly covered herself up though. The Cube went nowhere as the girl's English wasn't that great so I abandoned it. We moved to another venue and she was hungry and ordered a meal. I didn't as I wasn't hungry. We talked a bit and I found quite a few similarities. I tried mirroring her arm positions and that. She became a bit self conscious and offered some of her food to me (IOI or cultural thing or just politeness?) I did let her baby feed me a bit! we finish there and go to a nearby station to part company.While waiting for our respective trains she just blatantly asks if I would like to stay the night. There was no way as I had work and other responsibilities to sort out early the next morning. I never really expected to be asked that. We got our trains and went home. We kept in touch by sms and arranged to meet again.

Last night I got to meet her again. I think this may be very important. Before this meeting I told myself to get laid as I missed an open opportunity last time.The meeting venue was over 1 hours journey for her ( A big IOI in my opinion as girls very rarely want to travel ) It didn't start well as it was pure AFC territory. We went to see a movie (well it was one I wanted to see) and then a meal (could this get anymore lame?) During the film I get in as much kino as possible as I sat next to her and was touching her thighs and holding her hands. We kept doing the intertwined fingers thing (Another big IOI) During the meal (we split the costs incidentally) she mentioned that she had forgot her key to her apartment block and said she would have to stay at friends place near the venue. I thought she was prickteasing me.Possible shit test? I said nothing. A bit later she mentions the missing key again and the conversation turned to the first meeting when I was unable to stay overnight. I was upfront and said I really did want to stay that time but circumstances prevented it. The conversation turned to how we could get into her apartment without her key. There was a slim hope that another door would be open. I suggested we try and so we had to rush to the nearby station and get a train to her place. On the train I get in more kino sitting next to her. We both nearly went asleep on the train. I thought she may be leading me on and that she just wanted company and we would sleep seperately at her place. When we arrived at her place. The first way of getting into the apartment block was not possible but we found another entrance. It meant climbing over lots of fucking rubbish, but we got in and up to her apartment.
As soon as we got in her apartment I felt quite comfortable and kicked off my shoes and started to partially undress. It was hot in there and we had just come in from the cold. The girl started to partially undress too. She suggested I have a quick shower and then we'd go to sleep. I saw a guest bed in one room and a double bed in the other. After I showered she was in the room with the guest bed. I thought - FUCK she really does just want to sleep and we'd sleep separately. Oh well.She started to turn out the lights and went into the bedroom with the double bed I just followed her in and we both undressed. We got in the bed together but she went on one side with her back to me and said she REALLY wanted to sleep. I said ok but gave her a hug and a kiss.I recalled what Sinn (I think) said about this and that it is just a waiting game. So I just lay there and tried to sleep. I could not. I just held on to her for a little bit and then moved in the bed so I was not touching her at all.I did this a few times and the last time she just pulled me to her.I started to lightly kiss her on lips, face and neck and started to feel her tits. She said again that she REALLY must sleep. I was a bit frustrated I admit but I remembered to detatch. I went to the toilet and got back in the bed after a minute or two lying there she grabbed me again. We ended up fucking 3 times last night. We did get to sleep eventually and in the morning we fucked again. Sexually I dominated her most of the time.Not domination in a SM way but I just assumed she'd like certain things and lead her to them.I went down on her but before that I was kissing around her pubic area and got no resistance so dived right in so to speak. She did draw the line at blowing me. I did get her to jerk me off which she said she'd never done before , but said she enjoyed. Overall a very good night and morning for me! One I'd like to repeat with her.

nice man, nice. what do you rate her? hb?

Thanks. I'm still in contact with her and met her again but there was absolutely no action. Funnily she had made me dinner when I arrived at her place and we talked for ages but no sex. It was just like being married! She was feeling ill and I just couldn't persuade her. I think she regretted being so available so quick the first time at her place. She probably wants a relationship where I just want sex.

I'd rate her about 6 at best, a nice face but carrying too much weight. I'd rather have sex with a 6 than hopelessly pursue a 10 for months and months.

Funnily I had asked to meet her again today. I really wanted to see if she was keen for more sex or if I was being strung along. I gave her a deadline of Friday midday to let me know and she never contacted me in that time. I woke up this morning to find a sms from her which was vaguely positive but did not mention anything about meeting again. grrrr. I'll try to arrange something for this week and if it's no good then move on.

Just updating this. It seems like the girl is playing games and messing me around. I sent a text to her yesterday suggesting a clear date and time to meet again and she replied saying what time??? I replied saying it was such and such as I said. No more texts unless she replies postively (unlikely). So I guess it's time to move on.

Probably time to move on Skypirate. Still that's a good lay report. I love it when women keep giving us LMR to the last possible second. She pulls you on top of her and then says she's got to get to sleep. Good job plowing through that stuff and not letting it get to you too much. You just treat it as if whatever and keep going!

Nice job man!

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Thanks JSmooth,

to be honest I'm finding it harder to let go of this one simply as we had sex. Sadly my sexual experience is very limited ( I was pretty much the 40 year old virgin until I got married, which was pure AFC hopelessness until it imploded ) I think the reluctance to let go maybe because it was my first successful lay in gaming. I just have to move on.