| Hey bro,
This is almost the sterotypical case of boy meeting girl. Gorgeous lady getting attention from guys left right and center.
First of all, for next time, don't add a prospect to facebook without first building atleast the foundation of acquaintance. It may creep her out. If she adds you, you know you're golden.
Second, realize who you are. You're an aspiring casanova I hope? ha. I take it you are, or that you atleast seek the talent to capitalize on this woman. You're already a step ahead of most people in acquiring the right repetoire of skills, be confident and know that having her in your life would benefit her more than it benefits you.
I have some basic advice for you,
She is obviously in the spotlight because she's beautiful. Ignore her beauty, and ignore the guys hitting on her. Think of something that makes her unique, preferably a personality trait. Keep it in mind. Approach her at the library for a trivial inquiry.
Ex..Hey I could be wrong, but you seem like someone that could give me a solid opinion on something..( she says sure)...My roommate and his girlfriend just broke up, but still live in the same place..do you think its ok for him to bring girls home, or is that unethical?
Use simple openers such as that to get her talking. She has now invested time in you, and you weren't hitting on her for her looks. You asked for her opinion, she subconsciously inserts you into a category of your own now. The conversation shouldn't continue for too long, the longer you speak the more time there is for you too bungle it up. Two things about the first encounter, you should make an impression, and you should keep it brief. Leave her sitting there wondering about you. Wanting more.
During your next encounter, neg her.
"Those nails fake?"
Yea
"Oh there still nice, anyways...(and take it from there, make sure at some point you compliment her on the personality trait that divides her from all the other girls, and maybe follow it with another neg, then end the interaction)
Another thing make sure that you're overall well groomed for this. Shower, shave, throw on a dress shirt. Adds to the strong impression that you're going to make!
If there's anything else, ask man. I'm here to help. Let me know how it goes!
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