ok first off ive been on here a while but havent been to active int he posting category. please dont freak if i have put this where it doesnt go.

anyways, my girlfriend and i have just broken up after 1 year. the breakup was due to her lying and as i call it 2 counts of attempted cheating. she didnt exactly cheat but she had planned to meet with 2 diff guys at scenic places at night and then lied to me about it when confronted her. this isnt half of the little shit this girl has put me through though. im not gonna get into the other stuff but its a lot of things that you just dont say or do to someone you love or care about.

now we are broken up and shes pulling the typical stuff.. like telling me shes sorry and saying that she wants me back and that kinda crap, only shes out hangin with dudes trying to provoke jealousy. well its working and it drives me crazy. i dont let her know it though of course. i dont want or need this girl back i know, we just dont work together. but the feelings are there regardless and she has seriously used it to her advantage and raked me over the coals for too long now. so my question is, what makes a girl miserable when you 2 break up? i want to know what things i can do to make her hurt as much as i have and more for this.

call it wrong but she deserves it. no doubt about that.

ive already deleted her from facebook and myspace and have ignored all her calls and texts. im doing my best to act like this doesnt bother me and its working a little but what else can i do? i want misery for this girl so give me your best.. or worst stuff lol. im also in the process of trying to hook up with one of her friends so let me hear it

thanks, kegan

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dont get back together with this girl. Go get new girls. The easiest way to forget about her will be to surround yourself with new hot women. There's a million girls to replace her.

Why bother trying to hurt her? It isn't worth your time.

ok i know as well as any of you that this isnt the adult nor the ethical way of dealing with things and i agree... but it will help me get over her and what she did to me plus move on. im not trying to bring her physical harm, what i want is for her to see that shes not in control and that i have it. i want that to bother her. i want her to want me because she cant have me. i want her to feel as bad as i do... i know its not right ill say it again. how do you make an ex want you so bad they cant stand it?

JSmooth and brah good input

She gots all control because you are bothered by it. She will be in control aslong as you are bothered by it. You're only adding fuel to the fire by being bothered by her. Anything you do will be because of her, she'd still be in control.


Just let go and show her you don't care.