Yo!

I have a one itis, and I don't want to just get over with it and move on. I want to make her become in love with me. How can I do that? See that was the short version, the longer version would be that I created a list of 15 women I would like to turn into friends with benefits. Problem is, the first woman on the list, a beautiful HB8 (By the way I'm harsh with the grades, so she is beautiful). Anyway so I ended up, during the past month, falling in love with her. Now were talking about a girl, I like. A girl who honestly has between 300-350 men on her facebook who wants to bone her. And I want her for myself. She on the other hand isn't ready for a relationship. Which is fine, but if we are going to continue doing what we are doing I need for her to need me. Right now I am the one calling or texting her, she isn't doing shit to get in touch with me, that's why I need some good old PUA advice.

What would be a good thing for me to do? How can I change the frame of the situation?

Thanks!

meet her in person and kino is your best bet dude, im in a similar boat, but stick around these forums and in person contact is where it hall happens.

But the thing is.. We've had sex a bunch of times, everything we do is very touchy, I mean like we touch a lot.. When were together, but when were not.. She doesn't give a flying fuck. Now I know this might seem superficial, but I feel she is just using me for sex. Honestly!

Is there anyway that I can text her a magical NLP phrase and get her to call me.. Or something.. I'm tired of being the one doing the contact shit, when all I really want is her.. And not the idea of her.
Right now I decided not to write or call her for three days.. But man IT IS HARD, and I'm only on my second day now.. And she still doesn't give me any attention.

I know how hard it is. Fingers crossed. What I do when I just HAVE TO text a girl when I can't is that I text to someone else The best is if you have a good female friend. Text or call her. She'll usually reply quickly because she doesn't have to play hard to get. And will support you

should get around other girls man, and make her jealous.. even have sex with some of them LOL...

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All right so I went out for a party this Saturday and didn't actually sarge. I don't do that. I talk to women and if they are interesting enough - I'll allow to maybe get my contact information.. So this girl, very attractive and I could have had a same night lay with her, but I have this one itis, so I cant.. Anyway so she added me on facebook, we spoke and now I tend to write with her to get the interest from women I don't seem to get in my one itis.

I'm a pro. I know what to do and when to do, whatever it is I got to do, to pick up women. But this one itis is evil. She leaves me all emotional and shit.. Long story short, I got my attention elsewhere but Id still like to know if anyone has any kind of NLP phrase I can text her to make her interested? Something very smooth where I don't have to anchor feelings.

Maybe you need to get one hang out / go on a date with her to get her hooked, get her as interested in you as possible and F-close if possible, then maybe not call or something, if you can get the tables turned so she's pursuing you and checking out your facebook, you probably have to give her a lot of mixed signals that she'll analyze with her friends.

I'm no pro , but I'm thinking this is what you'll have to do if she's got so many guys pursuing her.. This way you'll be different and more interesting.

But very mixed signals might also cause the lost of interest.

I think that is the best advice here..

and I dont think that nlp can work througth txt msg, but u can txt her something interesting, something that will arose her emotions o intelect (you know her so you think about something yourself)...

owe, and because you already have some sort of sexuall relationtips, I would suggest going totally non-sexuall, romantic on her, like go out with her and do something romantic together, bring her a flower and be nice to her, in a half serious half funny way..

and then in the end DONT f-her, and say that you just want to enjoy it as it is...

and last advice.. think of what women do to you to make u love them, all those DAMN dirty tricks.. and now DO THEM YOURSELF

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