I was at a party in Rotterdam (the netherlands) and saw a girl. We really liked eachother and the thing was that we both were actually close neighbours in our home town. So I told her that I just moved in there. And we were dancing all night. Then she wrote back with facebook the next week: when are you cooking for me? So I said: come over next thursday!
So she did: we coocked together a meal and watched after that a scary movie. I wanted to kiss her then butt she liked the movie, so I didn't K-closed. we were hugging during the movie though. After the movie we had a long and funny conversation and that was my time. But she told me before about some guy wanted to kiss a friends of her and she throwed a beer in his pants. So I thought maybe she didn't wanted to kiss. So I didn't kissed her then. And I started a movie after an hour of talking. And after the movie she went home. I did nothing at the second movie. And then she went home, it was like 1;30 am. She had to go because wanted to be on time to visit her grandma the next day. But she said she couldn't come the next two weeks to our fraternity party's but after that she was available.
The other thing was that she didn't drunk alcoholic drinks.
So dou thnk I screwed it up or do I have a another shot at it?

Easy buddy. Sure, you could of escalated more, but nothing is over. Fact of the matter is, she might just be actually busy over the next 2 weeks. So there are a couple of basic things you have to avoid (don't show needyness...) in the mean time, but besides that, you are not out.

Next time you meet her, I would make sure to escalate to let her know that you are not just interested in being friends. You are not out by anymeans, but I can see you slip sliding to the friend zone if you don't convey your desires.

Cheers!

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hey TheJ,
thx for the advice, I am definitely going to escalate more the next time. I was just scared that she would react bad u now. But doing nothing is even worse.
Hope I can F close this girl she was fucking hot

I'm basically in the same situation. I've been talking to this HB8 for the past month.

We've been out a couple times. everytime we go out though we go in a group. So

its hard for me to get her alone. I always think of the right thing to do once the

chance is gone. I have deffinately applied keno. I dont think that I have done enough.

I know that i am not completely done for but I need to do something quick before I

become just another one. I need some serious advice on how to land this chick. I

dont know why I like her so much but I do. My next move is to go to her house

weds night and take her ice skating. she doesnt know about it yet so im being

spontaneous. I might be ok from there but I might just freeze up and need some

reinforcement for you guys on what to do.

Hey big54455,
sorry for the late response but I had an exame on friday so I had to learn. But heres what I am going to do. I make a list of good things I have done and bad things. Then I look how to improve my bad things. Lets take K-closing, I hadn't prepaired a K-closing routine, so I am going to prepair a couple of K-closings for a couple of situations I am going to be with this girl. One for my place, one for a party and so on. So the next time I see her I can do it.
Here's my advice, try to prepare yourself before going into battle . Think of tons of situation you could be in with her and try to end with her were you want it. Thats what I am doing.
Later Bro
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