hey guys!

Which book or program have done most for you, and what do you believe is the best stuff out there right now?? ... And why?

best regards, Christoffer

When you get more into the game, you notice that opening sets are pretty much the easiet part of the game... The hardest part comes when you are trying to build up rapport and comfort so that A) she would answer to your calls B) she would kiss you C) she would sleep with you. So, naturally kino plays a huge part when you are trying to " game " ( such astrong and stupit word ) a girl because if she isnt used to you touching her than when you try to kiss her, she gets scared. Why? Because you are doing something that she isnt used to while sosializing with you.
So remember that kino is a huge part of the game which makes your life a lot easier.
Thats why i would recommed that you read Vin DiCarlos " attraction code ".In his book Vin talks about his kino escalation ladder which helps how you can build up your kino naturally step by step.

[ Johnny B ]

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RSD for me. I like videos more than books, because they are more engrossing and leave the option of multi-tasking, and RSD makes great video products. They also have a very holistic approach to their teaching, TD especially. He hammers the phrase "deep, core level change", or an inner game approach.

He also does a PUA riff on Eckhart Tolle's work. I'm a big fan of his methods of thought as well.

The Mystery Method is obviously a must read, just because it is so essential to a basic understanding of pick up and is the best introduction to the game, besides of course, the book The Game, which is a biographical account of modern PUA and not theory (so it doesn't count). The natural progression from there is obviously to the Mystery Method, so there you go. Also, Tyler Durden, being a former student of Mystery, draws a lot of his essential theory from MM.

I recently purchased Gambler's Stealth Attraction, but have to finish David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating first. I've heard good things about DD and from what I've seen so far agree with what I've heard. I also got a tidbit of Gambler's new video in a preview and am excited to see the whole thing, so I'll recommend them both as well.

At the end of the day I really think there is no "silver bullet" PUA material. Like most sub-sects of a school of thought, they are merely different approaches to achieving the same desired results. You should take from each of these Gurus what you find valuable, because chances are they all have something you can take and use. I also strongly recommend getting as many points of view on a subject as possible, so I believe simply digesting one or two approaches to be counterproductive.

But do what works, man. There is no right or wrong way to go about this shit, and honestly I think that it all comes down to personal preference.

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