So I got this girls number off pof about 5 months ago. We texted off and on for about 1 week but then I started seeing this other girl I met in real life. Anyhow that ended a few weeks ago. In that 5 months time span i lost the pof chicks number so I msg her explaining I had other stuff going on ang got her number again. We have been txting again a few times per day. She actually stated ideas for the first date. My question is should I call her to set up the date before hand or just do it through txting?

call her of course!

Is there a template or something to go by in this forum. I know to keep the phone call short and sweet but was looking for more ideas.

Some tips for your dateing plan:
1. DONT set up a romantic date ( ex, dinner, moovies etc.)
- Take her out for something casual where she feels safe ( there are people around you ). Maybe for a coffee or something like that. There is two things that the girl wants to know. First one is that she wants to know that she wont get killed and the second one is that she wants to be dressed appropriately ( Vin DiCarlo )
2. I always like to put a time frame before i ask a girl out ( day 2 ). This helps you to retreat if things dont go as you planned without making up an excuse because she knows beforehand that you need to go. Another benefit by useing a time frame is that your date wont stretch out to be a dull date. This way you can keep it interesting as long as it seems and when you run off topicks you can pull your self out without beeing impolite.

[ Johnny B ]

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She actually wanted to go ice skating....I thought it was a pretty good idea....lots of other people and chances for physical contact.

Ice skateing it is than

[ Johnny B ]

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i've been meeting and f-closing a ridiculous amount of girls from pof lately. I never knew it was so easy. I always just invite them out for a drink. It's casual enough, putting a few drinks in them always works wonders
I've never called them to do it. I've always done it via email or text messages.

yeah pof is a fkin meet market. its so easy mostly hoess in my experiences though deleted the profile after a few months not a big internet guy. but id reccomend that site to anyone working on im proving their game.

I haven't used POF yet, just to see what girls look like in other parts of the US actually.. I'll have to give it a shot some day.

Try this..
Call the girl / text

You: "Do you have plans this Thursday? (don't give her time to reply), Because if you do that's ok, you can just cancel them, this is much more important anyways!"

Her: " What's that?"

You: "You have a date to meet up with ___your_name___ , the man of your dreams at ___ bar/coffee shop at 9:00. (tell her to change her look, i.e. if she had her hair up, tell her to wear it down, mess with her head, the opposite of her POF picture or when you met her, also fcks with her head, be vague in your reason why you want her hair different, don't say it was bad, but don't say it was good).

You: "I've got ___ time constraint to do, but I'll meet you at ___ bar/coffee joint for half an hour to see if we click, and if you're a dork then we haven't wasted any time."

Her: "What if you're a dork"

You: jokingly (LOL/ You're funny, ) "that's not possible"

Her: "ok"

Add-on: "Tell her this gives her time to hit to gym between now and blank ___"
Also depending on how much time is between now and 'Thursday' you can throw in something like "This gives you some more time to hit the gym so you can look absolutely flawless on Thursday" (I would use this with discretion, I use it they are hb7+ or if I've already established a C&F tone, also helps to make this date a big deal)


I've only had once girl say say she didn't like this, maybe she had a little fat on her that I didn't notice in the bar, all the other girls laughed, and the ratio was pretty good of this turning into a date.



I'm not sure which lines in here are original, it's probably all ripped off from various PUA's on my iPod... I think Brad P uses the, "we'll see if you're a dork" line.