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Also how do you talk to a girl in a night club when the music is earshattering?
Since I'm constantly around night clubs I'll take this question of yours. What you need to do is eliminate the loud music as being part of the problem. You need to move her away from the loud music as soon as you can.
Basically, you are going to have to really project your voice without yelling in the night club to be able to talk to her. Usually, after opening and maybe just a touch of teasing. If I see there is some initial attraction or IOIs then I will say hey come with me. I then take her by her wrist very lightly.... not her hand. Her hand could be awkward that early and she's likely to pull away. I take her wrist with just a few fingers very lightly and lead her away from the music so we can talk.
It's that or you can continue to shout over the loud music which sucks.