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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 8:42 am 
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long story short; I met a girl who had everything in common with me and started talking to her with the intention of dating her, but at the time she had a boyfriend, so I just tried to be friends with her.

Fast forward one and a half years: Although dating her is my ultamate goal, she is a great friend and I hang out with her and talk to her alot. I love this girl and really want to be with her. I've been doing cocky/funny shit for like a year and a few months ago started some kino with her. But she considers me to be her best friend.

Am I fucked? Is there any amount of pua shit that will dig me out of this hole?


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 10:15 am 
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Do yourself a favour and, get away from this girl. You have a one-itis. If you want to get out of this mess, go around and date more women.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:04 am 
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Keep her as a good friend, get dating advice, ask her to pivot for you in bars and clubs, get her to introduce you to her hot friends, and generally go out and game other women. After a while, if she becomes single and starts to get jealous from all the other female attention you're getting from others, she may start to become more attracted to you and you might be able to game her, but not necessarily.

Forget her as a target, keep her as a friend, and if later down the line you feel she's become attracted to you, then go for it. If you go for it now, you WILL lose a good friend and miss all the opportunities that friend might give you.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:13 am 
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I completely agree with Blond, maybe if u turn the screw on her and make it extremely obvious that your attention is elsewhere and not on her, which she probably knows to some extent that it is, then she could be like 'wo wo wo... this ma guy essay!'

but yeah, use her to the best of your advantage, hook up with her friends, enquire as to if she has any hot friends and basicaly take it from there. and true true true take her to a bar wit hyou if she is hot and get her to be your pivot.

word to my Blackberry... this thing is the balls.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:15 am 
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If you haven't been dating or seeing other people for the past one and a half years, you're really prioritizing this girl too much.

I think pickup can help you turn it around... but it takes a lot of work to undo one and a half years worth of being in the friendzone.

You should try to flirt with other women (this will help express your sexual side) around her and don't let her get away with calling you "my best friend"! Say something back to counter like "real friends don't put each other into little boxes" (best I can come up with lol there's wayy better things to say -- I'm tired :P)

Just change it up entirely, what you have been doing hasn't been working, and if it doesn't work, you did your best and there's other girls who'll fall for you. :)


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:28 am 
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Normally this is the easiest one itis to turn.

Because you already know her and she already knows you, that whole second day shit is irrelevant. Just for inspiration this is what I did the last time I had a one itis friend I wanted to turn:

ESCALATE!

It's pretty simple. Don't tell her you love her, don't say you want more and don't let her know how you feel. Instead, kiss her.

What you could do would be to call her, small talk with her and invite her over for a movie at your place. When your talking on the phone, mention how you earlier that day bought some scented candles you just couldn't resist picking up, and that she totally should check them out when she comes over.
When you pick a movie, something like "Just Friends" with Ryan Reynolds could scare her of, because of the message of the movie, where as "The Brave One" with Jodie Foster might give a better impact on her. You should be the judge as to what works better. Anyway so you invite her over, you already have candles in place and because you told her, on the phone that you bought them for yourself, she won't feel intimidated.
Make sure you the room you're watching the movie in isn't very brightly lit. You are going to need her pupils to dilate for later on. And make sure you light the candles before she comes in so it doesn't seem like "Oh I've been waiting for you, before I could light the candles" unless she asks you on the phone.
All right so movie time is on, and during the movie, you laugh with her and you cry with her. If there's a surprise element in the movie, you are going to want to take her hand. Yeah - cause its okay to escalate!
Go kino during the movie not too much but do it!
After the movie, sit down and create a deep conversation, with stuff you haven't already asked. Could be "What is your biggest fear", "How do you see yourself in 10 years", "If you had one chance to go back and change something from the past, what would it be".. You know that kind of questions.

When she feels like she is able to tell you anything, start with questions like "On your entire body, what's your favorite place to be kissed?". You know and escalate with the Q&A's. Questions like these turn her on. So start giving her a massage, and make sure you finish by her butt, and give her the single greatest butt massage ever! When you are down there, start rubbing the outside of her vagina.

And now she might let you do this for 1 second or maybe even 6 seconds but then she will tell you to stop. Because this is all of the sudden an area she did not expect from you. But to calm her down and continue o turn her on whisper stuff like "Oh that thing you said about..... Just totally turned me on", and put in whatever hot stuff she spoke about earlier. Kiss her, undress her, fuck her and hold her when your done.

Side note: When you have a one itis you are about to fuck. Stimulate her clit, and then move to the g-spot for 10-15 minutes. When you start banging a one itis it will go fast. Like really fast ejaculation from your side and you are going to want to leave her satisfied as well.

Good luck! :)


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