Alright guys, I saw a similar post to this but I'm at the next stage of the pick-up and I need to know ASAP where to take this...

I'm 20 and in 1st year of college. There's an HB9 who I have all of the same classes with. She is very unique. Does not have Facebook. Shows up for class late, sits by herself, takes off as soon as class is over. Associates with no one outside of class. Gives off the impression of being a stuck up bitch. Every guy is too intimidated to approach her.

One day I came into class SLOSHED and with the added liquid confidence, started running game on her.

We went for coffee that afternoon, and have gone for coffee 3 times since, each time talking for up to an hour and a half.

Last week I got drunk and escalated too quickly when I was talking to her in class. Screwed things up horribly and made it awkward.

I was really kicking myself for this and had no idea what to do expect apologize, so I did, and she cut me a huge amount of slack. Gave me another chance.

We went out for coffee again this week and again we talked for over an hour. She really opened up to me and told me her life story - keep in mind this is a girl who has MANY defensive mechanisms and a wall up to the world.

When we talk she is very flirty. We constantly engage in push-pull and I neg her constantly. She responds favourably and we have a few inside jokes.

However, i am unsure where to take it from here. I know that she is seeing another guy, although he is not her boyfriend. She gives me the impression that she's not really into him, but is still hanging out with him.

I've been racking my brain trying to figure out how to escalate from here. I am almost certain that she is interested me but I need some help.

This girl is very unique and like I said, does not associate with anyone from the program outside of class except for me. I don't think that I could just ask her to come to a party.

Let's see what you guys have to say..as much detail would be helpful and I can provide any other info. points as requested..

Added note: I'm getting a case of one-itis with this one, but have been fooling around with other girls at the same time, so it's hardly obvious.

come on guys help me out with this. what, you got no game?

First stop saying shes so unique and making her super special. Secondly i fear you will go to the friend zone. Am new here but from what i know from before.. make it clear you like her how you do it is up to you. If it was me ad just tell her in mid convo.

Try not too make her too special as mentioned however if she is also seeing another guy, get talking about it and try to out alpha him pick out some bad things.
Add escalation. If she's sending off the signals, the chances are she's into you mate.
Just don't add too much value to the escalation.

Also have you tried an instant date? go out later that night after coffee? That's worked well a couple of times for me.

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Welcome.

Thanks for the tip on the instant date. Will try that this week. The other guy she's seeing is a meathead, I already refer to him as the 'gay lumberjack' so..workin' on that as well.