I'm confused about the way I feel about my girlfriend. I tell her I love her and I tell myself I love her but I would prabobly cheat on her if given the chance. In fact I prabobly will cheat on her this weekend.

Does this mean that I really don't love her? Is it possible to love a girl and have sex with another? Is it possible to love two girls at the same time (lol, i don't mean a threesome)?

Ofcourse its possible to love two women at the same time.. just god forbid they ever meet..

Donuts, you do love her, just not in that "im going to spend the rest of my life with you" love. When you find your other half, you arn't going to want to cheat..

First, you have to find out who you are before you can fully devote yourself to another - try out some of the GunWitch Methods for self improvement..

Just remember that Sex and Love go hand in hand, Sex being the most destructive of the pair.

If you have ever been cheated on - like i have, think about how it would feel..

Its the most disgusting feeling.. betrayal.

Tread carefully

-Illusionist-

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Here is the thing...its not about how much you love somone many people love each other but still think about cheating and here is why IMO: Would I cheat? no Im not the cheating type and I thinks its selfish, plus its not worth loosing what I have with my gf...BUT I have thought about it because Im young, can have any women I want, and at times feel like I should be out geting laid (why do we feel this way?) because people get bored of their bf or gf and loose site of what they have...they take advantage of what they have. My gf is hot, she fun, we are best friends, and there are a million guys out there who would love to sleep with her!

I compair compare women to car lol and here is why: imagine you got a new car...lets say a BMW. You worked hard to get this car! you thought this was the car for you! and now that you have it you dont want any other car! its amazing, it beautiful, fun, fast ect ect....well after a year of owning the car it doesnt seem as amazing as it once did even though other people look at your car and think "wow thats a nice car! I wish I could have that....why does this happen? because you see that car every day, you drive it every day...you still love that car but you start to look at other nice cars and think hmmm I wonder what its like to drive that car?

see what Im geting at? its natural to become desensitized to things that are routine...what are you willing to loose for a good time? is it worth it?

well it depends ........ i know what your thinking .. i had the same.

i believe it's in human nature to fuck as many girls as possible - animals do the same they don't stick around 1 partner. It's also the power you have and the feeling you can fuck anybody - your ego is a part of your inner game.

imagine this.


you fuck another girl ...... a week later you fuck your GF again .....

4 weeks later you have a STD .... you find out its aids....

think further then simple cheating or sex ... it has consequences , i knew a guy who also slept with 2 girls ( not a threesome ) he got HIV from the other girl and infected his GF.... sad story.....

is it worth to fuck another girl ? maybe you get alot of guilt and maybe you become very AFC with at your girlfriend ...

you can love a person ... and you can love sex.... which one you love the most ?
cheating is also a very variable defenition .. is kissing cheating ? is dating cheating or is only sex cheating ? Or all you already cheating by having these thoughts ?

humans always fuck things up .. go back to loving it again and then fuck up again ....... human nature.

also i think you don't know how much it damages your partner when you cheat , one of my EX-GF cheated on me and it almost destroyed my life.
whenever you cheat don't forget to bring a knife ... stab yourself before you cheat so you know how it feels.

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It totally depends on your perception of cheating.. this is something you can only discuss with your partner.. everyone thinks differently about cheating..
some people think kissing acceptable, but sex is not.. etc.. it varies an awful lot.

Keep in mind that, in order so an open relationship to work - you must be 100% honest and have a mutual agreement on what the boundaries are. A lot of guys feel that it is a one way thing, that "I" can sleep around, but my gf can't.

I couldn't do it.. i'm happy to have a one night stand from a successful sarging session, but i couldn't let another man has sex with my woman, even if im allowed to sleep around..

I've been cheated on in the past, by my first girlfriend infact.. (because i didn't want to settle down and have a family.. she was older, and crazy - but i did feel so passionate about her)

i've gone from complete shock, to depression, to remorse.. and then i learned to let go.

Then i read The Game.. and now i'm flying higher than ever.

-Illusionist-

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