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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 8:35 pm 
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Hey there Newbie or should I say...........Captain_Freedom!!

Great report by the way! I looked first thing whilst at work on Monday morning but obviously was a little eager for it lol! By the way, I am a disposable lighter re-filler!...... errrr..... sorry.... I have been reading too much of this game stuff!

Anyway, from what you say it appears the boot camp has helped you with approaching. To start off in HMV is like being chucked into the deep end (with weights around your ankles). I still find it hard to get over the initial “creepiness” of approaching but at the same time understand that women are not going to approach us.

Also, I would not be surprised to see good looking dudes at boot camps with large biceps etc, trying to enhance their game. They probably thought “I can’t pull... but wait I have a great idea! I will pack on the muscle! This is sure to pull women!” And the find out this does not work.

Don’t get me wrong, going to the gym is great and very healthy, helping with outer game. But I have seen a dude where I work game & f*ck close the company accountant’s daughter (who was doing a bit of work experience) and he is a skinny ass rake with bent front teeth that overlap. He drives a banged out old M reg escort, has nothing that would seem appealing to an onlooker AFC (me  :( ), but somehow managed to game & woo this young, blonde HB9. He even had the cheek to say she tried to hard in bed, and he did not enjoy it!!

This was the point in my life I knew something was missing from mine. Shortly after, another friend mentioned that book “The Game” and hence here I am lol!!!

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 11:36 pm 
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Hey Hoopster,
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I would not be surprised to see good looking dudes at boot camps with large biceps etc, trying to enhance their game. They probably thought “I can’t pull... but wait I have a great idea! I will pack on the muscle! This is sure to pull women!” And the find out this does not work.
Very good point, I'm guilty for falling into this trap too. I used to hit the gym 6 times a week, I was ripped to pieces and had a six pack, but still no luck, in fact it made me more insecure.

I think this makes the game harder for you because women prejudge muscly guys as big headed and with super egos (well that was my ex's opinion).

Gets yourself a wingman, it helps big time. You can play it like a game taking turns to approach then discuss how you get on.

The game is what inspired me :-)

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 20, 2009 9:07 am 
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From my experience women ARE interested in fit men but not to the point where it is an obsession. I think it's for several reasons. A physically powerful man may be very intimidating for a girl.Girls realise just how much effort it takes to stay in shape and so they think that the guy's spare time is just spent working out, and therefore no time for them.If other areas of a man's life are overlooked then the man becomes one dimensional and boring.
People should endeavour to look good but not to the point of obsession. If it's true that women consider attraction based on 20% physical appearance then make that good but don't ignore other parts, personality, lifestyle...


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