Hey guys I need your help on this one. Here's the situation:

I know this girl for like 4 years (she's in the same school) and once I showed her my interest and she told me that she has feeling for me but preffered not to move on cause I was with another girl (ok my mistake!). So recently (after 5 months) we were chating and I asked her if I was for her just a friend and nothing more and she was like, yes why am I more than a friend to you?(as if she was trying to she if I was still interested) and im like, nevermind i just asked so that I know your intentions.For like a week after that we didnt speak to each other.

So what should i do from here (because I AM interested ) ? 1)Should I do m2f interest 2)directly speak to her 3)start the game from the begining (A2) or what else you think a player would do?

Please reply only those who have a solid opinion about this

She just wants a fuck buddy, not a relationship with you.

thats not the case but why do u think so??

Oh just weird that you guys stopped talking, maybe she thought you wanted more from her. Some girls don't want a full relationship, but everyone is different.

you probably shouldnt have asked because now both of you are in an awkward postion

i dont know what to tell you

im still friends with girls who wanted me years ago but i wont take it anywhere now

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Right I failed to mention that this not-talking-to-each-other was for like a week and its now over

How old are you Gun? listen mate..forget everything about game with this girl you said you know her for what 4 years? id try hold your breath now....talking. you know this girl its sounds like your nervous about losing her I can understand that since you known her for awhile..but to win the girl you must risk losing her to qoute mystery! So okay you lose her now atleast your free to start gaming other chicks, you win her over and you got what you want either way it goes its a win/win with a bit of rejection mixed in but hey, its not when we are succesfull we learn its when we fail!

what would I do?

Well Id call her asking what she's up to, and tell her id like to talk to her right? so now if she would agree on meeting for a chat its easy from that you've allready been accepted, if she does'nt agree just leave it at that, and see that as a rejection move on, if she wishes to talk she'll contact you.

SF