me: yeah man i wasnt feeling it while i was texting her so im gonna pull back for a while

natural friend: dude just keep texting her sometimes they act like they dont wanna talk but they do. i had this girl who seemed like she didnt wanna talk so i stopped and then like a week later she texted me 'why did you stop talking to me i really like you.'

After the conversation I was considering listening to him until I had a small ephiphany: what he did worked!, and its what i wanted to do in the first place!! these guys are so naturally non-needy they dont even know what they do to succeed and give bad advice. Anyone else experience this phenomenon?

Haha definitely. I love how in your example he totally missed the point. A lot of naturals really have no idea why they are good with women.

I definitely agree on this. They don't ALWAYS give bad advice, but they sometimes do. So you have to take anything they SAY with a grain of salt and analyze it for yourself and see what's really going on.

It's kind of like asking women for advice, actually. A lot of them will give you bad advice, but you can usually analyze the bad advice and glean some good advice from it. If that makes any sense.

on that note, asking really good looking guys advise is a waist of time.. Find the ugliest guy that gets laid and ask him for help..

I don't get it.....ok so he interpreted what you said as you pussying out and without calling you on it he told you to be persistent???/ I don't get? that 's good advice! lol

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it was the fact that the natural guy DIDNT keep talking to the girl that made her text back. not the fact that she wanted to talk.

the natural guy basically did the right thing for the wrong reason and STILL doesnt realize it so he is passing on his rationale. (but his rationale is wrong)
idk if that helps but someone else might be able to articulate this better for you...