| As my post before, I went to a mall to sarge. Weirdly enough, I did not approach anyone.
I've been thinking and here's what i noticed:
- most ppl are walking way too fast to talk to
- if they ever see your approach, most people would steer clear
- Some girls give you a sign or a signal to tell you to open.
Now here is what I think I can apply to my game right now [or even you can apply]:
- Maintain eye contact and walk right up if you feel that there is any signal at all
- Openers doesn't really matter in a mall. What you say AFTER the opener is the important part. ie: conversation!
- pick your targets?
Anyways so I walked out of the mall and decided to go for a walk. I was walking along and I see this HB7. I smiled and walked right up while maintaining eye contact...:
"Hey, what's up?"
"nothing, just going to the mall"
"actually, do you know what this street is? and how can I get to this street?"
"Yea, just go down and keep walking blah blah blah"
"Alright thanks"
*walks away... after 5 meters, turn around and says*
"Hey, i'm wondering if your a fun girl? Like doing you like having fun?"
*she turns around and starts walking back*
"what type of fun?"
"Well, like fun fun, playing fun."
"Yea I guess so"
At this point, she was laughing already and I felt this weird connection for some reason. It was like we built instant rapport.
"Ok, how about this. we play a game? I have a few minutes."
"Yea alright"
*I start the 5 question game* She seems very interested and we are having heaps of fun
*My Phone rings and it was actually a interview call lol* so this is what happened
"O shit, I gotta leave. Hey we'll finish this game another day kool?"
"Yea awesome." *we both smile and I could see she was waiting for me to ask for her number but I just left. Needed that job haha.
Things learned:
- rapport is really important. Must learn how to instantly create that. I think a reason was because she and I had a similar bubbly personality and we used very similar body language. Lots of smiles and laughs.
- Isolated places do help
- Maintain eye contact and taking chances
Any comments tips, criticisms and conversations are all welcome.
Btw, if i'm posting too much let me know. I just want to share and learn together at the same time.
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