Yesterday after some alcoholic beverages I though it would be a good idea to vent my feeling to my girl, who is currently out of the country for work.

Background:

I knew her for a month before I started having sex with her, and had regular sex with her for 3 weeks before she left. She has been gone for a month now.

The Problem:

I sent her like 2 messages wanted to know exactly where she is and where to find her so I could visit her. She wrote back once not mentioning where she is and didn't write back the second time. So after a week I wrote this message to her yesterday saying that I think she is cheating on me.

She wrote back denying it saying I trusted other people over her and that she was having a hard time with finding work and having constant access to the net. She still didn't tell me how to find her.

The Question:

What does this situation look like to the objective reader?

I kind of feel bad for accusing her of cheating without really knowing anything. Maybe I'm just paranoid. Anyway this girl is an awwssssommme lay so this means a lot to me, thanks.

Hi, im new here and know nothing about picking up girls yet
but like many of us I have been in the situation you are in right now...

Unless abroad means freakin Antartica I doubt she cannot find a phone or internet in 4 weeks
Besides seems to me like u just had a casual relationship before she left ? and now u might be obsessing

either way she has not let you know where to find her (she must be stayin somewhere?) so .... its obvious to me

Sorry for being blunt