Alright, I'm 15 years old and I'm hanging out with a 18 years old girl in my school. We've been hanging out for like 1 months. We're making out, having fun and have some quality time together. However Im not really sure that she is my girlfriend, I mean Im not sure that she really likes me, into me. ( What if she's just hanging out with me to have fun and make me her slave or something ? ). I really into this girl but Im trying not to. Should I try to be not into this girl so much, or should I just let go and trust her that she won't break my heart ? ( Our relationship is comfortable, but Im having some trust issues because she have broken a lot of other dudes hearts. I feel like we have something special between us rather then the other guys that she have been with, but how do i know that she won't do the same thing to me too ?)

Thank you for reading, please help me

canyildirim

See where she wants to go with this. If she doesn't bring it up, it's a sign she's not looking for a relationship. If you haven't had the talk yet, wait for her to bring it up. Don't give her control over your emotions without getting something back from her. It's not safe to fall completely for someone who hasn't fallen for you, or expressed in any way she has FEELINGS for you.

In the meantime, enjoy your time with her. Don't be desperate. Spend some time with other girls. This will help you figure things out. If she sees you with other girls it may give her incentive to bring up "the talk," or it might make her open up to moving on.

You're 15 and with an 18yr old. By all means that is absolutely BOMB. Good pull my friend. If she doesn't feel the same as you I would still hook up with her because THAT IS AWESOME! Keep workin' hard.

_________________
Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
Spread Love
-Ders


www.facebook.com/spreadloveders

Thank you soo much for your help man