So here's the deal. I been talking to this girl for about 3 months now. From the day we met we have had some incredible chemistry. We hang out about three times a week, and always have an awesome time. We kiss, cuddle, touch, have awesome conversation. I know she is into me, but just not sure if she is into me enough. her friends tell me that she tells them "she is not ready for a relationship". when i heard that, I called her, and told her that i really enjoyed what we had going but wasn't ready for any kind of big commitment (which isn't true obviously). She is a very, very busy girl with her work, and going to college. I'm thinking this could be part of her resoning for not wanting a steady boyfriend. This is what i would like to believe, but then again it's very possible that she just isn't 100% into me. So What do you guys think? Should I lay off a little bit? should I cut her off completely for a while? should i keep going with whats going on now? What do I do to make this girl go to the next level with me?

Thank you.

ok lol let me get this straight ...

Her friends are telling you ''she's not ready for a relationship'' did she said it directly to you ?

listening to her friends is stupid .. especially when they want to get into her pants, male friends are friends because they didn't got laid..... they got rejected.
some of them could even be ultra jealous... this shit happens 4 real.. most male friends want her to remain single....


well you should have talked about a relationship instead of being not interested ...... if you had said you're interested in a relationship chances are big she could have told you what's on her mind.

what do you got to lose ? stop being different and stop making excuses and stop listening to her friends .... her friends aren't shit - you aren't dating them.
you only know if shes enough into you when you got your gamae straight.... but you said you kiss cuddle touch etc so i can say '' yeah she's interested''.

How do you go to the next level ?

tell her whats on your mind and be honest .... be straightforward and be a man - she will respect you for it.
and if you are getting a relationship with her you don't want it to be based on lies ( stop making up excuses ) so be honest from now on.

don't call her and ask .... just go out .. take her somewhere have fun and tell her after.

and stop being insecure .... decide what you want and stick to it ... get confident because if you did knew the right choice you wouldn't be posting here.

again waiting is stupid...... you either take it or not ..... if you don't do anything you could be blaming yourself for fucking up.

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I see what your saying no doubt.

The only friend that is saying this is her best friend (which is in fact a girl). From what i'm getting from you, maybe her friend is a bit jealous. I mean these two girls are inseperable. Maybe the friend feels that if we started dating it would take away from their close relationship. I mean i know when one of my boys gets a girlfriend it can get to me, seeing how I like having my wing man single lol.

I guess i'm not following the rule "do not be scared of rejection". I really like this chick. But i think if I open up fully and tell her what i want out of this, it may turn her away. and scare her off a bit. I mean maybe it's not a bad thing having this smoking hot blonde as a close friend with benefits. But then again I can't keep wondering what the hell is going to come from all of this.

So I think I should take your advice. I will go out with her a few more times, have a great time, and when in the right situation i will tell her exactly how i feel.

We have been playing push-pull lately. I try to run game on this girl, but she knows the game. This girl aint no dummy and she can have any guy she wants. I know that right now I have a better shot than anyone. so I better go in full force and stop acting like a pussy. If I don't do something now, nothing will change.

Peace

haha, so I screwed that up. We went out clubbing last weekend. Everything was going well untill I drank one too many. I ended up dancing and gaming every girl I saw. Then to top it off I made out with her best friend right in front of her face. The next morning I called her to appologize for me acting like a total drunken bafoon, and she acted like it didn't bother her at all. It's been about a week and she has not made any effort to call, or make any kind of arrangments to chill. I asked her if she wanted to chill this weekend, and she gave me the "oh idk I have so much homework and bla bla bla".

It was fun while it lasted. All this experience taught me is that I don't need a damn girlfriend. there is way too many women out there. why settle for one?

THE GAME CONTINUES!!

lmoa .... yeah well girls enough :p party on !

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