I managed to open with a couple of girls at the pub the last night. And I have fallen in love with the opener," Apart from being sexy what do you do!!" but I have a doubt that when you exchange glances with the girl and walk up to her, she sees you and if she turns her back on you, what does this mean, is it a neg, is it an ignore or she herself is nervous about the rendezvous...

Will appreciate your response guys!!

I guess what I can suggest is not being too obvious about your approach, especially if you haven't receive any obvious AIs. Just kind of float over in the general direction of your target, which helps if you're talking to people and social proofing along the way, then when you're closer you can give eye contact and open, seemingly more like an incidental encounter that wasn't completely intentional or premeditated. I've noticed this helps a lot, in terms of them having their shields a bit lower and you not being as nervous about what to say and what they'll think. But this doesn't mean you hover around closely for too long either. As for trying to figure out what they're thinking and feeling from body language and such, I'd say never make too many assumptions and plough through until you have a clearer picture of the situation.

She can turn away for many reasons. She can be intimidated by your approach. If she maintains eye contact with you and turns her back to you when you approach, she probably is intimitaded. Or maybe she just wants to play hard to get. Or maybe she is just shit testing you.

In any case, turning her back on you or not, you still should open her. The good thing is that if she makes eye contact and keeps faced towards you when you approach, than your approach has more chances to succeed.

Thanx guys,

It happens a lot with me. The girl I have a crush on was standing alone and smoking. I was coming back from the gym, so I thought I will talk to her, but then after the initial glance she just turned her back to me and started looking in some other direction and I thought that she ignored me so I walked on and took the elevator and when the doors were closing I saw her staring at me again...I said wtf!!!! I thought that I acted like a total jerk!!!

In no way does a girl turning her back to you is a neg. There are basically three meanings when a girl turns her back to you. And for the most part all of them deal with what she does with her head, not her whole body. If the girl is interested she will either do two things. If she was imitated or shy when she sees you approaching she would be looking down to avoid eye contact as she knows she got your attention and is now shy or imitated that you are now approaching her. If the girl is playing hard to get she will keep eye contact as she is turning her back to you. She would do this by turning her head after she has turned her back to you. Lastly if a girl is not interested in you when she turns her back to you, she would turn her head away from you then her back. In short it be a physical "wall" she puts up telling you she is not interested compare to the playing hard to get it be more of a "hello" look.