| Hey guys, haven't posted on here for awhile, not been going out recently. I do want to share something that was completely unexpected that happened when I went to a party yesterday. To preface this FR, I was not in a "getting girls" mood, a friend actually invited me maybe 10 minutes before his party started to go and I just decided to go in the moment, I was not peacocked, in terms of dress and had no intention of making a pickup. Before we go to the party, I am blazed out of my mind and was feeling really good so maybe decision making wasn't my strong suit at that moment. But anyway, so we get to the party and I am flying between people I know, this is a very familiar group of people, with almost no complete cold approaches. There's one girl I've introduced myself to a long time ago during a work related event and forgot about. I bump into her and this is how it went down:
It was my friend's birthday, so I am throwing away a cupcake wrapper and she throws something away right after.
A for attract
Me: wow that is kind of sexy when you do that.
her: did you say that was sexy? (looks at trashcan)
Me: I was imagining you posing as you threw away that piece of cake wrapper.
her: you mean like this? (she then posed sticking her butt out as she lifted the trashcan lid)
Me: hahahah, yea there you go, that should be your greeting for me every time I see you.
Her: hahaa, (smiles hugely and stares right into my eyes as she does this)
B for banter
Shes talking to two guys, one of them's my friend, another guy is an acquaintance. They formed a V shape when talking to her. So imagine shes where the lower part of the V is and those two other guys are talking to her on the ends in a triangular arrangement. So I busted in on them by saying:
me: Hey I am just going to cut this V up right now. (motioned with my hands like I am swimming)
me: Hey did you see that? I cut this V in two and turned it into an i, me and you (smiles)
her: (She looks at me and eyes widen just a tad.)
me: did you like that line?
her: yea that was really good (said in a soft voice)
B/C modes
At this point its just me and her, but another one of my female friends comes and join this conversation, for some reason I busted out what I was doing so late out tonight. Originally, I was going to a friends house to sleep over, a female friend, so I integrated this part into my bantering.
me: So guys, I am going over to my friends place to sleep over tonight and I can't be out this late.
her and a bunch of people: sleep over huh? who is this person, is it a guy? Ewww thats nasty.
Me: No! Its a girl, and I am going over because my bed is extremely hard, and since I just had back surgery (true story) my body still hurts and I want to find out if a hard bed is the issue. She, my friend has a really soft bed.
her and a bunch of people: (laughs wildly) Right! testing how soft her bed is, let me know how soft her bed is (smirky, sarcastically)
her: Oh my god, that is seriously the best pickup line I've ever heard!
me: OMG, thats the truth, I actually think my bed is making my body sore.
her: hahahaha, really? My bed's really soft, you should come test mine.
me: really? I am doing that tonight, you mean I can test it out tonight?
her: yea absolutely. (stares right at me with no smile)
At this point I think I fucked it up, but I honestly had no intention of picking her up so I was more on autopilot more then anything. I hand her my phone and said put in your number but nothing too dirty. She responds with:
her: why?!? that makes it fun!
me: alright(fake exasperated sigh), you can. (smiles)
She puts in my phone: First name: A****** Last name: "The hot trashcan opener"
D for direct:
So we banter a bit more and I said,
Me: do you walk here, are you close by?
her: yea I live right on ____ and ____
me: is your offer to test your bed good? (smiles directly at her)
her: yea (stares right at me with no smile)
me: Lets go check it out.
her: right now!?
me: why not? I was going to go to my friends and test out her bed, but since I bumped into you, I could just test your bed first.
her: (she looked at me with her mouth gaped open a bit) and she looked slightly shocked and said,
I don't remember what she exactly said but it was along the lines of, I don't think I want to go right now. I ejected and left the party.
Things I think I might have done wrong:
1. Didn't figure our logistics
2. Didn't solidly perhaps build comfort, although I was vibing so well I thought after B was good enough for a go
3. Didn't Kino much at all, even though she was giving clear IoI's that she was open to it.
4. Didn't go deeper into sexual topics
Things I did well:
1. Direct
2. BT spiked well
3. A-B transition was very smooth and worked like a charm for some reason
Any thoughts on this you PUA gurus? complements appreciated .
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