Met this girl at a party and would appreciate some inpit. She is a slightly shy girl and we talked a few times throughout the night. We laughed together and I got her number at the end of the night because we planned to hang out. We texted for awhile and made plans to hang out. Something came up on my end so we had to reschedule. We are both going to be going to a party of a mutual friends of the same place I met her this friday. We've been texting and I've been building comfort that way seeing as she is a shy girl. I am approaching Day 2 with this girl and she left a facebook comment on my wall saying she has a problem because its only wednesday and she won't see me until friday. She wants me to solve it.

How would you respond to this?

a. No response (Don't reply to her)

b. Tease her back (examples)

c. Build more comfort and compliment (examples)

d. Tell her if I wasn't so busy we'd hang.

e. Your own original response!

Would appreciate the help guys, I'm not freaking out about it. Just curious what others would do in this situation.

What the hell dude? She's practically begging you to kick it with her before Friday.

If you want her then don't try to follow the b.s. "rules of the game". Get on it while the emotions are high. Hang out with her tonight or tomorrow and make it happen. She's practically throwing herself at you. Don't hide the fact that you're into her and don't take it slow...be physical from the get-go and make it happen. Right now you're in.

If you don't want her, then simply don't respond and you can see her at the party.

This girls mad shy and from what her best friend tells me shes a really girl. She doesn't drink or anything, had like one past long term boyfriend. To be honest im actually am to busy to hang with her. Shes working and im working during most of the time.

Just tell her you're too busy and you'll see her Friday. No need to get gamey or tease her in my opinion. And don't let the shyness change up your game, treat her the same as you'd treat anyone else. Shy girls like to be desired just as much as everyone else and they also like sex just as much.

Throw the game down on Friday and you'll have major success my man. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

I'll let you know how it goes, thanks for the feedback. I didn't think I should try to game her hard and that's why I even suggested no response, but giving a reason I guess seems more reasonable in this situation.

You could use a tease back or not respond but DON'T try to meet up earlier. You will come off as desperate and you know what women do to men when they sense the slightest whiff of desperation!

Tease-backs:

"Well my dear, good things come to those who wait "
you can also add to that "... and trust me, I am SO worth the wait"

another one could be:

"Patience is a virtue my dear "

Anything within those lines OR don't respond. Good luck bro!!

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Just an update for those who have been following along:
I ended up teasing her slightly back. We ended up going on a date to barnes and noble and the movies. It went well we went back to a friends then back to my place where things got touchy feely but she said she didn't want to hook up. I respected her froze her out and she came back at me stil hesitant and she had to go. We had a second get together the following day that was suggested by her. I told her sure I guess you can come over and study since I have to as well. We studied then got a little more heated then last time, but she said I'd have to wait to get in her pants. A couple days passed and she said she wanted to see me again. I told her I had plans but she could come over for an hour or so until I was ready to go out. She came over and about an hour in I had her completely naked, but I was unable to use my manhood. This is the 2nd time this happened to me... horribly embarrassing. I played it off as that she was too nice of a girl and somehting in my head was making me think to much. She asked if I was embarrassed and I said no of course not, she smiled and said good. We discussed and lots of hints towards a relationship in the future and so forth. I'm really down and out that I couldn't perform.

Nice. I didn't see this in time but you definitely made a good move by hanging out with her.

Anyone else out there should do the same thing. Don't make plans on facebook. If she says she wants to see you, give her a call. If you plan it out on facebook you're going to rely on her checking it in time, and then a phone call is going to be made one way or another.

Get it in while you can is what I say. You can get away with so much more if you hook up first. It's harder to blow off a girl and hook up with her afterwards. Too much gaming can make you miss out on a lot. You have to know when you can close, and close when you can.

Your game should be easy as ABC.

Always
Be
Closing

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