hey,

i got this problem, that sometimes when i get rejected it kinda hurts in the heart. any tips for not taking it so seriously?

1. Realize that she doesnt have good taste in men
2. Realize that its her loss not yours and that their are 5 more billion women on this earth
3. Realize that it maybe wasnt you. Maybe she was having a bad day, broke up with her boyfriend, or lost her best friend.
4. Realize that you dont control that decision. If she has the decision to reject you you have the decision to not be affected by it.
5. Accept that rejection and take it as a growing experience not a failure. Remember whatever doesnt kill us makes us stronger.
6. Change your approach. If your not having success with what your doing AT ALL then obviously your doing something wrong.
7. Work on your inner game
8. Realize that anyone can get through this
9. Realize that your not the only one who has this problem. This is a challenge thus it is possible to overcome. VERY POSSIBLE.
10. If its IMPOSSIBLE its NOT necessary.
11. Dont only take time to look at the negative things in your life but also take time to look at the positive things in life.
12. Nothing has any meaning. Meaning only and exclusively arises when consciousness comes along and connects a thing to an internal reference.

Also she's not rejecting you as a person she's rejecting your game but, there's a

good side to rejection,feedback meaning you can always improve and also just

try not to take thing's too serious they are'nt I mean she deos'nt know and you

don't know her what if she's crazy(LOL).But seriously just think of how many

woman are in the state u live in alone that only count's for 1% of the woman in

the world there are so many beautiful woman that you have yet to even see.So

just remmber there is no such thing's as failure only learning lesson's and in life

class is alway's in session.

I agree with what others above have said.
She doesn't know you, she's not rejecting you.

You shouldn't use the word "rejection". Who is she to "reject" you? Who is anyone to "reject" anyone else on this planet? We are all humans, we all eat, piss, shit and fart.
She didn't reject you, nobody can ever reject you as long as you accept yourself for who you are, and don't you forget it.

Every guy has gotton so called rejected, its nothing personal, its not you she rejected its your approch!! girls get hit on all the time, ive gone up to girls open a set to get BLOWNED UP!!! you need to expect that, and besides if a girl cant reject you how is she going to like you? without the freedom to choose against you, or choose to be with you? i dont look at it as rejected its more like taking damage hit damage get up and fight again just need a little bit more confidence sir..

here read my thread on characters and confidence and why girls lie, yo you just need more inner game and thats character!

heres the link
character-practice-cover-ids-and-why-gi ... 55548.html

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Dude, she's the one missing you. Her loss not yours bro;)

The only way I know not take rejection personally is to realize "it doesn't fucking matter if she rejects you." There are literally hundreds of millions of women out there. If a girl rejects you, whatev, a better one will be along in a minute. Start opening your eyes and see all the beautiful girls that are everywhere. I mean literally everywhere. Take a step back some day and just look around.

Who cares if one girl rejects you? A girl with a hot friend who wants to play also might be coming along in a minute, you never know.

anyway, that's it for now.

- TD out.

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Send me a brunette,
Send a blonde to me.
When I unwind, I'm colorblind,
They're all the same to me."

It might be rude, but one exercise to overcome this is to be rude to someone without apologizing, trying not to care.

I told my friend to do it and it worked for him. What I don't like with it is that I have to, deliberately, make someone upset. Even if it's just for a moment.

look on women as a piece of meat, you know.. just got to find the good one ;] that u can cook u dont cook shit ass low price meat...