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PostPosted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 4:28 am 
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Hey guys, so I'm new to this forum, but so far it looks like it has some great tips! So I'm a pretty smooth guy when it comes to girls, however, I always seem to lack the confidence to approach a girl and start talking to her (unless if I'm out at a club).

Anyways, in my one class in University, there is this girl who, for the past 5 or 6 classes, I've seen looking at me. Our eyes have met a couple times, but she usually turns away quick. I haven't approached her yet, because when she leaves she is often talking to the guy and girl who she sits next to (I've seen that guy with another girl though, so I know that he isn't dating this girl in class)

Soo, I'm hoping to see her on her own after class one day and I'd like to go talk to her and get her number, but I'm not sure of a good opener? Any tips would be great, thanks!

P.S. Nice to be part of the forum :)


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:55 am 
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If you see her checking you out then that an open invitation. Just go in and talk if she is vibing you then she will be a open to any greeting. You really don't need an opener if she is giving you an invite just walk up and start talking. find something interesting on or near campus that you would be interested anyway. and say you are going and see if she wants to come along. Be playful and funny. tell some interesting stories that show you in a good light. and don't forget to touch her don't be creepy but do things like rub her shoulder, massage her hands. You will do fine.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 9:02 am 
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Rythm has it bang on the head..
but if you are still stressing out on what to say, just keep it simple, yet a little suggestive, even just something similar too:

"i saw you looking my way.. i thought it would be rude not to say hello"

you can neg her a little by saying that you've noticed her looking quite a bit.. and that you thought she might have some sort of nervous twitch (but if you say that last bit.. make sure you have the cheeekiest grin on your face)

im sure you can take it from there! :)

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 2:38 am 
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K thanks guys, I think I'll definitely use something along the lines of "I saw you looking at me a couple times, thought I'd come say hey"
I haven't had a chance since I posted the original question b/c I've been sick. But hopefully I'll see her tomorrow! :)


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These are the type of situations that make you want to be in college again. "meeting girls " becomes alot harder. So she obviously knows your in her class.. there is absolutely no harm, in stopping her for a second or two, and be like, "hey, my name is ____, i see you like every other day and i thought i'd just introduce myself.. ask some b.s question about the class." then just go from there (make sure you get her talking about her major),... don't ask her for her number the fist time you speak to her. all u need is a 2 minute convo..

next time you'll see her, you'll know her name. sit next to her, and now your officially class buddies. just make sure you say hi to her and bring somethin up right away, because she'll probably smile at you and remain silent (if she's an HB8+). once your in that class buddy state , builing comfort will be easy and simple...

cant have it that easy in the real world.. god bless college..


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 18, 2009 12:10 pm 
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gotta watch out, what LoyalKnicksFan is saying has got some truth in it -, its a more In-direct approach - but its going to head you in the Friend Zone

Go in direct, open her, a cheeky neg, DVH (something to make her laugh), neg her again with a "i like the way your ______ wiggles when you laugh".. make sure you have a time constraint, but seeing as you are in school - its probably a genuine one, i.e go meet mates / class..

I suggest you #-close there and then with "i'd love to continue this conversation another day"

or go even more direct and get an Insta-date, invite her out for a drink after this class etc..

You like this girl!? there is no point going in-direct and sending a mixed signal.

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