| I get to the bar and I order my beer and one of the regulars there that I know starts talking to me. We are just talking about football and stuff. He says to these 2 chicks, "hey have you guys met Matty?" I introduce myself and they tell me their names. My wing is talking to the obstacle. My target can be described as a spinner 100 lbs or less, which is exactly what I always look for. It seemed as though that me and my target hit it off almost instantaneously. I didnt use any routines that I normally use, she was qualifying to me from the start. What do you do for work, how old are you, and my favorite do you come here often. At that point I already know that this girl is into me. She just IOI'd the shit out of me. I did however tell one DHV story about the my carjack. We talked about surgeries that we've had, I told her about my gallbladder, she told me about when she broke her nose during a pillow fight with her brother. She says hey lets go smoke, I'm like ok. We talked a little about work, she is a server at a breakfast place. Kino was happening left and right, lots of arm touching, flirting, smiling, and hugging. We went back inside to her friend, I told her you have been stealing me away from my friends, I have to go and hang out with them for a little bit. That was my willingness to walk away. I went back to the table outside to hang out with my friends. later on I grabbed her hand, fingers in fingers, and then I walked her outside hand in hand. While we were smoking, I told her I was curious about her. It opened all kinds of conversation. I asked how she was in high school, she said she was a cheerleader. I invited her to come over to my house to grill some steaks tomorrow, I then number closed her. her friend comes out to join us, I said lets go meet my friends, I then led them through the crowd to our table outside. Her and all my friends hit it off, thats more social proof that I have cool friends. We kept hugging on each other the whole night, she said she liked me and couldnt wait to hang out with me again. Its almost too easy, I used almost no game, I was just being myself and having a good time. I noticed that my target started getting pretty drunk, and also she started to get a little quiet. I got in close to her a couple of times but didnt kiss close. I think she knew what I was trying to do, and she was starting to get a little shy, so I stopped. I told wing, try and get her friend to come over to the house. If that happens its game on. my wing kissed her friend a couple of times but could not get them to leave with us, so we did a freeze out and left them at the bar.
I called her the next day at about 11:30 and left her a voicemail. I told her I was planning to grill the steaks about 5-6pm. I got a text from her a couple of hours later asking me when I was cooking the steaks, when I told her she declined, but she said she had a really good time with me last night we should definitely hang out this week. I just figured she was really hung over and feeling like shit all day. I dont blame her, I just hope its not buyers remorse. I dont think it is though.
a couple of days later, Phone game starts with me texting her, "OMG! The craziest thing just happened, you've got to hear this, call me!" she called me about 20 minutes later and I told her the "Do you believe in spells opener." It got the best reaction, and opened up the conversation. I told her I was going to a wine tasting and didnt invite her. I think I kinda fucked it up though. I waited too long for a reaction. I asked her to tell me her schedule so we could get together, so I messed that up too. I told her lets hang out on Saturday and watch the UFC fight at the Bar, so at least I think I'll be seeing her then. A couple of good signs are that she jumped through my hoop when I told her to call me. It's definitely on, I can tell that she likes me. I'm in C1 with her. I'm going to invite her over to the house and we can leave to the bar together on Saturday.
Today is the day that I had my day 2 date with my target. She was actually excited to go to the bar and watch the UFC fight. She also told me that she had invited her friend to join us. I didnt think anything of it at first, but I was a little disappointed because now I know I have to entertain both girls, and it might be a little harder to isolate my target. she calls me at the last min and told me that she wanted to just meet me at the Bar, her friend is already there waiting for her. That really sucked because now I dont have a guaranteed reason to take her home. I'm thinking I need to build some more comfort with her. when i got to the bar I immediately notice what she was wearing. Holy shit! She was wearing this blue strapless dress, with the strings that tied around her neck. So my first impression was that she got really dressed up to see me at a casual bar. After I grabbed my beer from the bar, I walked over to them and gave them both hugs. The conversation opened right up with no issues. We picked up right where we left off last weekend. She brought back up the do you believe in spells routine which she had mentioned to her friend. I guess its a good sign that she is talking to her friend about me. my target was looking for an update of my friend, does he still think he likes her, she said. I tried Style's EV routine. She wasnt very descriptive with her responses. I still need some more practice with that routine. she said she loves her dog, which to be honest was pretty boring. It kind of through me off track. We then briefly talked about some previous relationships, which she actually asked me first, IOI. She talked about that she has been single for about 6 months. Her last boyfriend was from England, and they were together for 2 years. I asked her why do you think it didnt work out? She said because I didnt want it to. She then talked about how she kept jumping from one relationship to another, and how she never spent anytime being single. She said that this time she was gonna stay single for an entire year before she begins another relationship. Well that kinda sucks if she is gonna keep that promise cause its only been 6 months, and I really like this girl.
This was the first time I've been in set where other dudes were approaching both girls with me there. It was pretty interesting, but at the same time I never felt threatened that any of these dudes were going to steal my girl. To be honest the guys were pretty lame. I could see my target and her friend girl coding each other the whole time. I used a little bit of kino during normal conversation, but not too much. We talked a little about music. I wasnt really feeling like the conversation was very interesting. I think she started to feel it too. I went for the big guns and asked her to do the cube. She declined and I thought oh fuck, I think she is starting to get bored. at that point my wing and his brother show up, and I figured at least now I have a wing, and a real opportunity to isolate my target. At this point the conversation was over between me and my target. She was now involved with listening to what her friend and my wing were saying. my wing's brother told me that my target's friend told him that my target likes me, but that I'm being too aggressive with her. I couldnt believe it, I thought I was not using too much kino. Then my target started to say she was getting tired and wanted to go home. I asked her if she wanted me to walk her to her car. she said no i'm parked up front i'll be ok, I did not follow her. I'm not really sure where I am at this point. I wonder if she is seeing through my bullshit. I know that she knows that I like her, there is no friend zone situation going on, I'm using enough kino for her to know that by now.
now i have not gotten any response from 2 text messages and 1 voice mail. looking for any tips or feedback to either get her to hang out with me again, or if i've screwed it up totally. thanks guys.
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