Hey guys,

I am 24 and have been in relations before but the problem is that all of them were initiated by girls. I kind of find awkward in going and talking to girl I dont know. For instance this Russian girl in my university, we exchange glances a lot, but she is always with other guys and I feel awkward in going and opening her to now coz I feel it is too late!! What should I do? Not that it is happening for the first time!!

Appreciate your response guys!!

it's called approach anxiety
I don't know if it would help but try to read this:
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It's never too late. There are always ways to win a girl over, even after the first connection.

If you want to go the safe route... wait until you two glance at each other again. Continue the eye contact for at least 4 seconds, then say...

You: "Don't tell me you're going to look at me like that and not say anything to me..."

Or if you want to be a little bit ballsier, just do a direct approach.

Seeing as how you see her during the day. The best way to start a conversation with her is to be direct, and not indirect. That means try your best at not going towards canned material, and opinion openers, and just go for the gusto! Make your intentions known right off the bat.

Say something like...

"Are you a model? Cause you've got a lot of good things going for ya."

The interaction might hit a few "lost in translation" snags, sense she is Russian, but I don't know how well her English is. I know I've hit on some of the Chinese girls that work at the China Wok here in town...and their English is really bad...but it's possible to work these girls, and I've gotten a few numbers, and I get the All-Star SPAM every time I go there to eat now.

Working with immigrants is tricky...but helps you with driving your points into people.

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It looks too good to be true, I know it works but I'm afraid to use it.
The reason is: approach anxiety is a rush of adrenaline through your body and I watch a video that explains "if you get rid of approach anxiety you won't be excited to talk to approach girls. even the best singers have a rush of adrenaline before a concert... racing car drivers have it too that's what makes you remember it and want to do it again!"
So my question is what do you think about it? I'm afraid after using that tapping technique approaching girls won't be that excited and memorable anymore and I won't feel that good rush of adrenaline that makes you want to do it again and again.
And yeah I do have approach anxiety and sometimes it really f**ks me up but if I'm using the 3 sec rule or if I think of it as a game I approach.

Thankx guys..

But I dont understand that what does it mean when a girl who is hanging out with a guy glances at you?? Does it mean that she intends to say "stay away! I have a BF" or " He is so boring, come talk to me!" or "Atleast he has the guts to talk to me!"

Its two things. Its either : Damn look at that guy. or DAMN look at that guy, he looks weird and keeps staring at me.

Only one way to find out. Next time your staring at her, smile. Give a wave and calibrate yourself to how she responds. Don't be afraid to talk to her. Pull her away from the group, or open the guys and get to the girl later. Call her out on staring at you to much. Make a joke midway through and tell her to stop violating you with her eyes.

Don't be just another guy staring at her during class time, be the man who isn't afraid to talk to her.

If the issue is that she's surrounded by other men, then you need to read up on AMOGging, and get in there. Whether she's surrounded by men or women, it really doesn't matter. Same approach. Get her friends to like you, then isolate the girl.