What up, If I can get some input on this situation it would help a lot.

So I seen this girl at the grocery store and she is HB 9. She is the cashieR and when I've gone in there I've taken my parents grocery shopping because they don't drive. I seen her there like about 4-5 times but I haven't talked to her because either she's busy checking out others or if I do go to her lane (only one time at heR lane) my parents are right next to me along with all the other shoppers and I hesitate. I live in Texas.

So a two nights ago I went to the club with my buddy were there 4 about 1 hour minutes and as I walked by I saw her and her friends. I passed her and then I Recognized her it was unexpected. Her friends and heR checked my buddy and I out and they looked at each other and her friend nodded and giggled.

I was like aaa shit its on! I went close to the club entrance and sat back and looked at the dance floor. I know thats wack, but the club was very empty and it looked stupid to walk around in circles like a dumbass since its a very small place so we chilled. I saw the giRls go and dance and afterwards came right behind us and sat down. 10 mins later they got back up danced and came Right back to the same spot. I turned around and was like hey don't you woRk at that gRoceRy stoRe..she said yes why?...I was like cause I noticed you and thought I Recognized you 4Rom there. Then i introduced my self asked heR name she said and I told heR mine we shook hands and then told her if there was any other clubs around here. We couldnt hear each other so she talked to heR fRiend and showed me her phone screen it said" i think theres one at this place...then gave me the street name..then I talked to my friend and we just left the club 2 minutes after. I could have kept talking but it was too damn loud and everyone was just grinding not dancing so I didn't want to be just that guy who asked hey do you want to dance AKA gRind....so we left .....So i'm gonna go to the gRoceRy stoRe. EveRy week I have to go...so i'm just gonna go to heR lane and be like hey wat up...you gonna hook me up with a discount...and be like yeah that club was so gay..I'm neveR going theRe again and if she don't initiate conv. much then I'll keep going theRe talk little eveRy time and go foR the #...any tips on what else I can do?????

My friends always have parties at a house so I might just be like hey wats youR # my fRiends and I always thRow paRties ...you should def. come some time....open to suggestions??????

Hey whats up onetwoboy,

I was lookin over your dilemma, and think you have great opportunity, it sounds as if when she saw you and your friend in the club she was definitely interested so I would suggest going there when your not w/ your parents or see if you can break away for a little bit and go to her register. buy something small like a pack of gum and strike up a conversation w/ her. Whatever you talk about w/ her will definately be more interesting than her job (trust me i worked in a grocery store and always prefered my friends coming in and bullshitting to distract me). make it quick and make her laugh then go in for the close, ask her to coffee or a quick bite to eat and you'll be golden. sounds like u already got your foot in the door anyway haha!

Good Luck!

idk she looks like 18 so idk if I want to take her too coffee or shit...I want to go somewhere fun...not too formal.....i'd rather have her hang out with me and friends at a hooka bar or at a party. then an actual "date". It works better cause that way if she flakes it wasn't a date I just invited her so we can kick it another time......the only dilemma is if I should go for the # close the first time i go to the store or go a couple times then get it

definitely get it the first time. otherwise you stand to make yourself look like the weird kid who keeps staring and coming to talk to her and you'll start to condition yourself that way. and as for the coffee thing, it doesnt have to be coffee. you want to build time with her before you take her to a party or somethin like that. for instance that hookah bar sounds like a great idea.