Got into the game so that when I found a girl i wanted to date, i could. Last 6 months have been all hookups for me, not finding anyone i actually like. It got me a little down, the hookups were all meaningless to me. I am very picky for who i date, i know what i want and i don't settle, and dont think i should have too either.

Met a girl 3 weeks ago, a girl i like and want to date. I get mixed signals from her, and i would say that since it has been 3 weeks with no significant results i have likely hit the friend zone. I am a little aggravated at myself since i have wasted so much time preparing for a time like this, to fall on my face. We are flirty, and have alot of fun together, however i cant say for certain she views me as partner. Now, I am willing to suck it up and move on, now that i know there are girls out there that actually have what i am looking for.

I would imagine there is a way to turn friend zone into girl friend. I know this is possible, and I think it is worth a try. I have known her only 3 weeks so i am willing to risk being blown out over sitting in the friend zone forever and potentially watching other guys hook up with her, and if I fail, lesson learned and move on. I am down but not out, looking for help with a comeback, whatcha got for me coach?

Learn some cocktail recipes, invite her around to your place on a week night (she wont be going anywhere else then). When you invite her around, tell her that you're planning on having a party, and really needed someone to try out some of your recipes.

Get your SPAM or whoever out of yours, get the temperature, and SPAM right to get her comfortable.....

Need I say anymore? Just be creative, I just thought of this now, so surely you can come up with something. The above probably doesn't fit your situation, but who knows?


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I am actually in this position and could use some advice. I will try and keep it brief.

I have a girl coming over for dinner (me making) this week. She is someone I have known off and on since high school. We have gone out quite a few times now. I have been to chicken to bust a move. I may be in the friend zone, but I also have been getting a lot of IOI's when we are out. The girl is just a little bit of a control freak, certainly not GF material. However, I would like to have some fun. I have been playing a little hard to get as to keep from entering the friend zone. She doesn't talk about past BF's with me, nor does she mention other girls on my behalf. I have played her with some jealousy to try and prevent this. I know all of this can't promise I am not in the friend zone.

Anyways, saving for grad school, paying cheap rent to live at home (where I run a small business while in my senior year of undergrad) and the parents are gone for the week.

She knows it is just me this week. I invited her over for dinner. She didn't object. I REALLY want to escalate. I figure let's see where this stands now. My heart isn't broken either way. She's a cool girl who I'd like to have fun with.

So escalation????

I figure cooking is easy. I can show her how to do things to get her involved. Lot's of Kino.

Maybe a movie afterwards.

This is where my mind draws a blank on specific things I should look to do.

Any help would be appreciated.

yes, you guys should get DRUNK.... and do it ALONE with each other


then you could talk her into give you a should massage...guys get chick friends to do this ALL THE TIME so its not weird. Then you just return the favor and maybe extend the boundaries of your touch a little.

Make sure she's sitting with her back against your chest when you do it.

Hopefully this is a recipe for a hot night.

Don't forget to go down to your local drug store from some protection son.