I've been able to start conversations with girls but never found out how to incorporat NLP.
I tried it a few times and it was really awkward, felt like it was out of the blue and out of my character.
Any suggestions or tips?

What are you trying todo? What makes you feel weird; Be more specific.

This is like; I have this elephant and its pink, i love it, but it hurts my toe.

If you truely want help what NLP stuff are you doing and what do you want to accomplish.

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Ok, no problem man.

I'm trying to use NLP to create a comfortable feeling about me. Or some feeling that I want the girl to feel at that time.

I always try to use "can you remeber an instance that you felt....?" And i'll try to either use my watch as an anchor or touching her arm lightly as an anchor.

My issue is, when I attempt to use NLP, it sounds very very random and does not suit what ever I was doing. Here's an example:

Normal talk blah blah blah
*I sit up straight, prepare my anchor* "Can you remeber an instance that you felt very happy?"
*girl looks suprised* "Uhh, yea"
"Can you remeber that time really well?"
"Um, yea..."
"Well, tell me about it."
*Girl explains story*
*I try anchoring the state of mind but doesn't work. I also feel very awkward when doing it, I think it shows in my body language:S*

Is this normal? How can I be more fluent in transitioning from normal talk to NLP set? Also, what do I actually do when i anchored the state of mind? How do I relate it back to me?

I've been working with the same issue, SuitedCC. NLP patterns work best when they are introduced innocuously into the conversation and are somehow relevant to the topic at hand. It's best to steer the topic in a direction that makes the transition to a pattern feel natural. This can be done by talking fluff (general chit-chat) at first, then eliciting values using the information you've gained, after which it will feel more appropriate to continue the conversational thread on a deeper level (as in running a pattern). An example:

-Me: "Hey, I heard you're into dancing."
-Her: "Yeah, I am."
-Me: "What kind of dance?"
-Her: "Modern stuff, like hip-hop and the like."
-Me: "That's cool. How long have you been doing it?"
-Her: "Since I was about ten."
-Me: "Wow, that's quite some time. Was it your parents who suggested you take up the hobby or did you find it yourself, so to speak?"
-Her: "I've always loved dancing, so it was something I really wanted to try out."
-Me: "So it really lit a spark inside you, did it? The feeling when you find your true passion in life is wonderful, isn't it?"

I would continue probing her positive emotions and try to get her to experience those states in my presence (using a pattern). If successful, I would then anchor them.

A more straightforward approach that wouldn't feel completely random would be something like this:

-Me: You know, people mostly talk about mundane and superficial stuff like work or what they did last weekend, etc., and it's usually really banal. I personally like to get the most out of human contact, and I feel that life can be a much more pleasurable experience when you come out of your shell every now and then. So, how about you take off that social mask of yours for a minute and be your real, inner self?

If she agrees, start eliciting values (asking about her hopes and dreams, for example) and then use patterns and anchoring.

You try to trigger an emotional state in her using the anchor in order to create attraction (or to get her more receptive to your suggestions). If you've managed to succesfully anchor an emotional state to a touch on her shoulder, for example, then she'll associate the feeling of your hand touching her shoulder with that specific emotional state. You're more likely to agree with people you like and with whom you feel comfortable.

I think that the best way to become proficient with NLP is to practice the techniques in every conversation you have the possibility to use them. So, wether it's a relative, a co-worker, a friend or an acquaintance, just practice.

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You guys make it sound awkward.

I personally rely on my own personality traits first, and foremost. NLP, and self hypnosis are crucial to my inner game. I prepare myself by remembering a time when I was really feeling cool, and then I fantasize how it could have been better. This usually gets me psyched to go out. Next I ball this feeling and environment up, and hold it in my right hand, and sort of pace around feeling the vibe. Then I put the imaginary ball in my pocket and head out. Then when I feel like I need, I pull it out, and get right back into my game!

As far as using patterns to get a woman interested in you. When your being funny, or she seems like she's in a good mood, just touch her, and say a word to anchor it. I play sexually oriented question games when the conversation runs dry. This gets her thinking about sex, and I make sexual jokes about myself. This gets her comfortable thinking about sex, and you. Just altering tones and anchoring to yourself when she access the states you want is all you need to do.

Also, getting her into a confused state makes getting a kiss easy. Say what is not your name, or what are you not thinking of? And as soon as you see the look of confusion you can pull her in for a kiss without any resistance.

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Thanks for the reply guys!.

will use your recommendations and try it out and practise soon.