Ok, I got this cute girl I am talking to. I have explained to her that I am seeing other people, and I want to keep seeing her. Now she sends me texts every 5 min, and is acting like my girlfriend. I do want to see her( she is a good lay), but how do i get her to back off. The less I talk to her, and the more distance I put between my self and her, the deeper she seems to fall for me. What should I do? -M

If you train her on how to treat you she could become very good at seducing you. Eventually she might be able to tame you. My advice is to move on.

Or you could tell her that you need space because you are a man, and all men need space. Tell her that she has to respect that and in turn you will listen and care for her.

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Its interesting how that works. I wonder what would happen if you reciprocated--maybe she would withdraw?

The real issue here is what want out of this relationship? If all you want is to be friends with benefits, and she wants a boyfriend, you owe it to her to make that clear (a second time), and if she's still not getting it, to break it off.

Magnum is right (as usual). If you like this girl there's no reason why you can't let her know how you want to be treated. If you're just keeping her around for the sake of having multiple sexual partners and she wants monogamy, that's just mean.

PUAs have a reputation of being misogynists. It's important that we draw the line between game where we respect and game where we use women.