I have been practicing my routines and everything for about 6 months so far and I just developed a pretty solid one. Even though I feel like I am using a good game on these girls that I speak to, it doesn't seem like they want to continue their interactions with me via phone, etc.

Maybe I am overanalyzing stuff and they just want to be with their friends on weekends, etc. I would just like to make girls more interested and crazy about me so when I call/text them, they are really excited that I did. I also want to have more successful game with hotter girls. If I can find a way to get a really hot chick interested asap, I will be able to move on to posting things that can help people like me (and not to mention hook up with more hot chicks ).

So I ask for any advice on stuff to add in to my routine. I feel like magic tricks and more visual things would be better than stating cool things about myself but thats just an idea. Please feel free to post suggestions that may come to mind.

Thanks

Perhaps your trying to hard to keep them interested, maybe try acting like you dont need their attention ( if you havent already ). Make them work for your attention - Cat String Theory.

Hope this helps.

Don Juan,

maybe there's a congruency problem. Do the routines you use feel natural? Are you comfortable with them? If not then girls are likely to pickup on that.

plus have you made any kind of rapport with them, something that makes her feel somehow connected with you, something that makes her want to see you again?

i think this is helpful to make rapport

You can be any animal. What are you? You can marry any animal except your own species. What kind of animal do you marry?

interpretation

Confident people pick animals who possess qualities they like about themselves. Insecure people pick animals they admire. When selecting an animal for their spouse, they usually select an animal that is least like their last or current BF. For instance, if she says she would be a dolphin it means she admires freedom, intelligence, cuteness, beauty. If she chooses a dog for her spouse's animal, it means that she abhors disloyalty and her ex probably cheated on her.

credit to "Rain"

I think that if you have attracted them and there is no rapport the feelings they have inside have no direction and women feel confused or weird about that. With rapport as well they will have both comfort feelings and sexual feelings and know the source is from you.

As far as my routines go, I am quite natural with them. I try to speak about certain topics that we would both be familiar with. I also try to relate my past experiences to her interests so we seem like we have a lot in common. I feel like I am very good continuing a conversation, however I still need work being a more attractive guy.

I feel as if there is still more to building an emotional connection. I do regulate my voice tone, energy levels, etc. however, I feel like I should leave a girl with more things to remember me by. I am not really sure what else I can do to make girls remember me distinctly. This can be wrong though. I might simply lack an appropriate amount of rapport.

I liked the animal line though. It is very intuitive. I will test it out as soon as possible. After I find out what her animal type is, I would obviously exhibit her ideal personality. Should I just keep at my routine and present myself as her ideal type? Or do you think I should add in any extra things that she will keep in her mind like a magic trick?

Hi Don Juan,

Check out the 2 videos titled Connection Killers about half way down the page

http://www.pickup101.com/birthday/

http://www.pickup101.com/birthday/

I have a feeling that you may be connecting on a surface level but nothing deeper. You may even be trying too hard finding commonalities and that's working against you.

Watch the video clips and it's interesting that the romantic hero archetype has very little in common with the girls he seduces. He also spends little time with them. So in a way girls are not expecting someone to share all their interests and hobbies.In fact if you do you're more likely to be considered a buddy or a friend.

From my experience over the years any girl which has been attracted to me, we had little in common. In fact I married a woman and to be frank we had next to nothing in common.It lasted 8 years and we had 1 daughter so it could be defined as a success. I recently f - closed a girl I had gamed and you guessed it, we had little in common.

D you think she will appreciate the magic trick? If so, then try to do so. But I must say that I have seen my share of magic tricks gone haywire and compromised a pua. And with talking to my share of girls, most of them say that magic tricks don't really do much for them. For the most part, it entertains them but it doesn't make them want to really keep in touch.

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I think the danger with tricks are twofold.

1/ you have to practice practice practice so you are flawless at doing the trick. If you do it wrong ... well it's pretty much fucked up your chances with her

2/ you become the 'entertainer' rather than the seducer. It will be hard to figure out if she's interested in you or the trick.

I think if the trick is closely related to your interests then it becomes a natural extension of yourself. It won't seem weird to the girl that you're doing this trick.To me doing tricks just appear to be a gimmick and an obvious pick up strategy.

Honestly, I've seen tons of the posts like this, some my own.


You're too much in the "entertainer" mindset, coined by Sebastian. You're looking to entertain girls, but thats really not the most powerful thing to do.

Just like everything else in the world, there is no magic pill. I'll tell you what someone told me a few years ago:

Keeping going out and gaming, as you put more time into it you'll naturally get better and less girls will flake. Hire a coach and get some one-on-one help, I can recommend people if you PM me. Finally, plan a day-2 with her.

Try texting instead of calling also. I rarely get chicks on the phone anymore.