| hey how are you guys, i really need your help on this i hope it doesn't turn out to be a long post,
ok heres the thing:
yesterday i went clubing with some friends here in miami, i wasn't gonna go out tonight but this girl (coworker) that i've been gaming asked me if a iwanted to go with her and i said yea but i was gonna ask some other guys from work if they wanted to go so we could be a bigger group, plus one of them knows a promoter and stuff so we dont have to be waiting on line or anything, she said yea, let's do that, ok everything was goodd she called me several times during the day to make sure that i wasn't gonna flake on her, anyways we agreed to meet her at her house and then go from there to the club all together but then, i called the other guys and girls if they were ready but they happened to still be at work, so this girl was getting frustrated and stuff and my other friend wouldnt answer because his phone was dead, we were supposed to meet at 10 so we could drink some before going to the club but nobody was ready so i told her fuck it im gonna call some other friends and i'll go out with them, she then called me 5 minutes later and told me to go and pick her up and then we go to the club, after that my other friend called me and told me that he was ready and that his phone was dead that was why he wasn't answering,
ok at this point i was already pissed and wasn't sure if i still wanted to go, but i still went and picked her up the we met my other friends and drink some before going to the club, over there it was good we were having a good time and stuff, and my coworker told me to be careful with that girl because she is a coworker and i am about to be promoted and try to not mess around with her, ( this was because she was looking at me and smiling, hugging, and being flirty and stuff) so i told him yea i wont be messing around with her, anyways after that we headed to the club and we got there, the club is really good, it had a good energy but when we got there my energy levels started to go down big time, i tried to get it high but this girl wasn't helping at all she was all down i tried to make her feel good, and stuff but she was down so we met some other friends over there and i started dancing with them we started having a good time but my other friends called me and told me that the wanted to go to the other danceroom on the first floor so we headed ther and kept dancing
she was at my side and i noticed that she was texting since a while ago and, found out that it was to a guy that was in the club and she was telling him where we were, he got there and he started dancing with her, i felt bad because everybody looked at me, and my girlfriends were like wtf i thought that she was into you, and my friends were telling me if i wanted them to get the guy the f@#$ out of ther, i told them no because she was the one who called him,
so i decided to go and open some girls, but they were all dancing and i tried to dance with some of them but they all blew me off, and since i was feeling down somehow because of this girl, i wasnt in the mood to pick up that night
anyways i still tried, opened some sets but they all blew me off, so i ended up in another floor just chillin' at the bar trying to figure out how the hell to get into state again but i couldn't do it so went back to my friends and kept dancing still laughing and having fun with them so the girl wouldnt notice that it actually afected me, but i still ignored her and made friends with the guy.
so the sticking points would be,
*how to get a girl to dance with you and do #-k-f-close in a club that is really loud.
* how should i deal with the situation with this girl next time i see her at work. ( i'm good at acting like nothing actually happened so my guess would be to do that, but still im not gonna go out with her anymore)
* the most important one, how would you actually get into state, i mean like what stuff do you guys do when this happens.
im really new to the night game, im kinda good at day game but lately i found out that night game it's way diferent and harder but i still wanna become good at it.
thanks in advance guys.
im sorry for the long post hehe
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