Hey,

Just got in from the gym, and I as got to the elavator in my building to get to my flat a nice girl was waiting for it too. She was wearing some pretty funky pj bottoms..so i decided to compliment them and tease her about them abit as they were pretty childish looking.

Anyway before I know it the lift had stopped at me floor...now, we quickly exchanged names and ended up shaking hands...not sure if that was a natural reaction or whatever but is that a wise thing to do? I was pushed for time but is there any advice you guys have for dealing with really quick ineractions?

Either way, i looked like crap due to the gym and still managed to open and have a pretty funny convo which has done my confidence some good


Cheers,

I dont shake hands with women, I give hugs.

well i'm new but still have some whacky ideas so hear me out

I'ma start with well done for pluckin up the confidence, nice one there.

Seeing as she's in pj bottoms the last time, and she was waitin for the lift.
It shows she lives around or is comforatble with the area, this means you're likely to see her again.

Now in this situation, before you left you could of said,
' Catch you around sometime Miss. _____ <-- Pj character whatever ' makin it cheeky and leavin her with a smile and practically wantin more.

But that's for that situation, i'm not so sure about quick ones other places, maybe apply the same thing but AGAIN, i'm spitballin, don't humiliate me just givin some ideas rather than bein an 'Alpha' male on the forums and just generally not helpin and bein a dick (, I mean i'm new and i've read some topics and some of the shit people leave in posts is like.. no ).

Hope that helps a tad good luck

PS. just thought bout this, maybe in a table situation or whenever you can. Leave your phone there ON PURPOSE, so she'll HAVE to come back and that means another encounter givin you more time. And maybe you can say, after the thanks and all. ' Well seeing as you have my phone, why don't you go ahead and whack your number in ' with a smile of course.