commands. Pick up your phone, check your messages, i'll sit with you next time. commands such as these I say naturally. this is a problem. however, is it a problem if i do not carry out these commands in which i have made the girl assume? What if i do not call her, do not leave her a message, do not sit with her. is this good game? a girl thinks she has you because you tell her to pick up her phone, but you never call? will she call me? GOOD or BAD? what do you guys think? won't she wonder WHY did he tell me to pick up when he never even calls. or WHY did he tell me to check my email or facebook, if he never left me a message. given a few days may be seen as whatever, but what IF i just never do what i said i was going to do? suggustions much appreciated. -Rye

I don't understand any of this. Use paragraphs

[quote="C-DUB"]I don't understand any of this. Use paragraphs[/quote]
Okay, I think he was asking if it is good game to say "answer your phone when I call" to a girl and then not call.
That's where the line between PUA and complete asshole is crossed.

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yeah my bad man i meant to say, if i said "pick up your phone" and then call like 3 days later or just not call, if that was agood game or what. so it is assholish? -Rye

its ASSHOLE. If you say you're going to do something you should do it. Out of courtesy if anything

ok ok what if you say to a chick "pick up your phone!" or whatever and you call a few DAYS later. money?

Don't wait a few days, all the amazing stuff you've made her feel that night will possibly have disappeared in that timeframe, and she'll be far less likely to say yes to a date.
You're taking the concept of not showing neediness too far.

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go with the flow there's options