So, my high school friend brought some of her friends up to my college to visit and party with us. We ended up splitting into two groups to go to different parties after an hour and a half of pregaming. I didn't end up seeing my friend and her friends the rest of the night, but I had spent all of the pregaming time flirting with some of her friends. Later that night I sent my friend a text telling her to give one of her friends, [Sammy], my number. We texted a little and then I went to bed. When I woke up the next morning, all sobered up, I realized that I had mixed up Sammy with [Jenny]. How can I fix this before they come up again?

Sounds like a slip up, if Jenny has Facebook or Myspace add her and talk to her over that and invite her to coffee or something. On the contrary you could always ring or text your college friend and ask for Jenny's number.

So basically your saying your number was given to the wrong girl? That's a horrible way to start talking to a girl, you should have got the number directly when you were pre-gamming. You had the perfect oppurtunity when you split up, "give me your number we'll figure out what parties better" or something along those lines". You can't do much now, it's not like you can say I messed up and I really wanted to talk to your friend. They are friends and they will talk, especially if they are in highschool. The other will find out you've been texting one, and the best thing you can do now is to play it off as a friend thing with the girl your talking to now. You can ask her to come up to a party with her same friends and target the other one.

Mortal: Yeah, I really should have gotten her number when we split--it seems so obvious now!

There is one important piece of information I forgot to divulge originally: I went direct while drunk texting the night I mixed up names. I would love to try to play it off as friends and go for the other when they come up again tomorrow, but I do not think that is an option now.

The one whose number I got originally is cute though, so my plan is to close her tomorrow. Will this mean I am done for the rest of the group? I have been thinking about social circle game a lot lately because I want to now close multiple of these girls (they are in the Colorado Ballet). I am thinking that the only way to do this is a more long-term approach. Any suggestions or is it just impossible?