she seemed cool, but she stopped replying...damn o well. my profile should be more socially proofed, i have like 15 friends on there haha.

me
you look like somebody who's doing something with her life. i'm looking for somenone who's down for anything. talk to me.

her
haha well thanks!!!

me
sure, what's your story?

her
my story? haha what of my life? lol

me
is it classified information? should i be worried? how about a more serious question. what's your favorite color?

her
lol no its not! haha.
but my favorite color is pink, and i love aqua and black and purple too.

me
what about green? i love green! i can't be friends with somebody who's not into green

her
hhaha depends on the shade of green. then i might like it.
what kinda music do you listen to.

me
all kinds a7x, 30h3, some oldies, pop do you play anything?

her
nice. yah i play guitar. you?

me
cool, is it pink? i play guitar and piano and i want to know what kind of music you listen to. i like loud music

her
no it's candy apple red with a pearl pick guard. then i just have a plain acoustic. i listen to a lot of stuff. i'm mostly a pop punk kinda galll, like new found glory, fall out boy and the starting line are my 3 favorites. but i listen to everything from rap to broadway, but i'm still kinda picky too haha.

me
candy apple red with a pearl pick guard was going to be my next guess. you're friendly, are you an artsy creative type person?

her
uhm kinda i guess. i'm very creative. i have a inventive mind i guess. i love doing choreography.

me
you must be very flexibal, i hope you have a wild fun side too! let's trade numbers.

First of all, every single message you send her is asking a question until you suggest to trade numbers. It was too interview-like.

And then after all the questions, you show little interest when she opens up to you. She is actually trying to gain rapport from you by saying that she's creative, has an inventive mind, and is into choreography. You respond by saying "You must be flexible, I hope you have a wild side, What's your number?" It's like you pretend to be interested in the conversation until she starts to show some interest back, then you automatically ignore her most important message of the interaction, say that you hope she's wild and ask for her number. No congruency there, my friend.

Lastly, there is no flirting or building of attraction. You talked about favorite colors and music, that's about it.

Take a step back from the conversation and look at it as a viewer from the outside...why would she want to give you her number? What reasons does she have?

You were in the game when you were talking about music, because she was interested in music. You were even more in the game when she started telling you things she was interested in. You should have asked her about the choreography. Instead, you blew yourself out when you randomly brought up the wild side/phone number...kinda came out of left field.

In my experiences, the two best ways to get a number off the net would be to make her laugh until she gives it to you OR take the conversation a more intimate route.

Best of luck to you bro. Keep fighting the good fight!

yeah true. thats what i figured. she seemed to really be forcing rapport and i didn't bite. i was going to but all these "rules" started running through my head. haha. live and learn.