hey guys!

This is my first post so I will introduce myself.
Im 18 years old and my girlfriend is 16. Me and a group of 7 other guys created our own mini PUA page on facebook. Its private and so PM me if your interested in helping us out, we always appreciate a new addition to our team and professional advice is always fun.

So with this group, we started sarging, gaming at clubs and on the street and basically anywhere. We sortof evolved into our own personalities and specialties. My own specialty is subconcious. I play alot on it and spend alot of time confusing the girl so that no matter what, she always ends up thinking about me, trying to figure me out.

In any case, I met this girl while sarging and at first my game was flawless. My DHV's were great, my negs hit hard, and when I was sweet and cute she just melted. Now two months into the relationship, its like that spark is gone. Im just like every other guy to her!

I need some help on how to keep things fresh, I want her to worship me again! I want to see it in her eyes. I need new negs, new DHV's, new material. We know everything there is to know about each other and so now its like... nothing new you know?

Just an example, a cocky funny line I use often is "So how much did you miss me today?" and the girl will always answer something like "sooo much what about you?" and Il answer "you kidding? you never left my head!" but in a sarcastic way, so that shel spend time trying to figure out wether or not I was sarcastic or meant it. My girlfriend just destroys me right then and there, her answer goes something like this "you so desperately need me to tell you I miss you eh?! "

I need help on how to appear more Alpha. I need to renew and refresh my game. Please help? I want her to worship me again.

-Belenos

Banter, buddy. If you can't come up with lines on the spot there's no point to it. You'll lose every time.

What is that supposed to mean?

Im good at being cocky funny but I just need a couple routines to build on, thats all. I need to turn regular stories into DHV's

"you so desperately need me to tell you I miss you eh?! " lines like this. Answer even cocker back and even a bit mean if you have to. And anything she says for 15 minutes after make fun of her for it. sounds like she is being cocky and you are submissive.

Now there is a more productive response mate!

ok so what could I answer to that tho? Im not used to being broken down but this girl is MUCH more independant then other girls Iv been gaming and so its harder, but I dont back down from a challenge. Shes fallen for me and so Its pretty good, I just sometimes see a spark of that independence and Im determined to crush it

so whats a cocky answer to that?

I would laugh and say "Pfft, Don't pretend you don't" and maybe throw in a neg. It's all about not being submissive to her being cocky. Knock her down when she is being cocky. She'll be cocky for 15-20 minutes, then she'll look a little sad, when she looks sad be "cute" and she'll melt.

Banter is all about negging each other and seeing who wins, always try to win and when you do be cute after, it works trust me. That's why I said if you can't come up with lines on the spot it wont work for you. You said you are good at cocky, so be good at cocky, good luck man.

I did it and it worked!

we were on the phone for 2 hours and everytime i wanted to hang up she BEGGED me to stay on. and the whole time we kept giving each other attitude! I broke down her independance, at one point she was even saying "see this is how I like it!" and she at one point, there was a silence. and she said "see this is where you tell me you miss me " and I answered "Wel see if you deserve it "

it went great! thanks man
keep the advice coming!
I steel need a bit more DHVs tho. Im getting that passion back but I still want her to worship me. I want her to show me off to her friends and to get butterflies the second she sees me or hears from me. Any tips on that? how to shine in her eyes basically?

Just keep teasing, but make sure you are being cute sometimes. You don't need to DHV because you already got the girl. The best way to DHV now is just be busy, but also spend time with.

I usually respond to stuff like this with "aww its cute when youre insecure and want me to tell you youre needed"

She gets so confused because I said shes cute but no girl wants to be told shes insecure

this is tough because a year ago I would have thought this shit was brilliant, but now it just sounds stupid.

Yes a relationship is suppose to be fun and exciting, but part of it is the security. You sound pretty insecure yourself and she's calling you out on it.

You don't have to banter and tease her all the time, and you can't be submissive.

Youre trying too hard just let it happen, if you get bored it's time to move on. I got bored of my ex gf after 5 months, I cheated on her, we took a 3 week break, and after that I didn't care about her any more, but stuck it out for another 2 months and it was painful.

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