Let of say that you are at a loud club, and somewhere in the lounge area, there is a group of 5 girls (not on the dance floor). you have your eye on a target, but you know your better off approaching the whole set so you wouldn't buy into the target's frame... However, the music is really loud, and there's no way you can say your pick up line (regardless of what it is) without screaming and looking stupid. .... (eg. do you just speak to 2 of 5)?? the problem is, no matter what you say they're probably going to ask you to repeat yourself because they won't hear you. How do you go about this??

You need a loud voice. This is an area that I can't compete in. I have resorted to hitting the bars early and getting to know the groups as they come in, when the music and people aren't too loud. You just plant seeds and then they find you later in the night/you find them.

I have had some success with
"HI GIRLS WHAT ARE YOUR NAMES?" *arms raised as if you are going in for a group hug, might place your hand on the two outer girls* I know it super direct. It has both worked for me and failed really bad.
You have to be very high energy and think of your self as the guy that owns the club/bar and wants to see how his customers are. I got the club owner idea from some David DeAngelo clip on youtube that has been taken down since.

And the idea for asking names straight up i got from a girl I know name Olivia, when I asked her what is the best opener that would work, she said ask for the name. So i went out to prove her wrong. And it did work.

I'm new to this so take that with a grain of salt

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The idea from david deangelo comes from his "meeting women in bars and clubs, and other public places" program. In it he has craig talk and give some awsome advice.

If you want to master this area, get that program. It goes deep in what a club situation is and how to handle it. He explains the dynamic of the interactions that happen in the club and how you can turn that into your advantage.

One of the things that he talks about is behaving like you own the club and you are checking on how your guests are doing.

So the frame is, I am the owner, I want to see how everybody are doing, are they happy, are they having fun ?

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