Joining "the game" a few weeks before summer holidays I'd never imagined being in this situation. I got into to it like most people do; I broke up with my gf for 2 years and a friend of me told about The Game from Style. Started reading and thought: wow, this shit is pretty heavy.

After the reading the book I started reading this forum and some other PUA-websites. Started testing it out in the field and was surprised that most of the shit actually works.

Then we went to France with 5 friends in a holiday. Could pretty well say that this was probably my best vacation ever till now;) Of course brought up my PUA skills (kind of a natural) to there and was very successful.

And then I met this one girl. She just was it for me. Those eyes, that smile, the way she looked at me. Brought a little game up to her and had her completely under control, like a puppet master. Of course I f-closed her that holiday and we stayed in touch, even though we lived 400 km's away from eachtoher. Problem was back in France she still had a bf but she didn't liked him anymore blabla usual shit. I was like yeh right.. I don't care.

We stayed in touch via MSN, text-messaging and phonecalls. She wanted me to visit her. I said I was only Ok with that if she broke up with her bf..
She wanted to be careful with that because he was very emotional about it and stuff. Eventually she broke up with him so I visited her. Had a great time and missed her even more.

After that she visited me and we had yet a better week together. Guess I'm totally in love with. Never the less her ex-bf keeps complaining about it that she broke up, that i'm a loser(never met him) and stuff. It's pretty obvious that he is jealous.
In 2 weeks I'm going to visit her again and it's pretty sure that we will see him there at a party or in a club. The reason I post here is because I would like to know what I should do then. She told he was pretty emotional and fragile. If he saw us kiss or something he would cry and stuff. Personally I don't really care about that but I dont want to hurt her feelings.

I could just AMOG the dude and let him have a bad night and her probably too. But what are my other options.. please help me.

Gewoonissos

Why are you looking at this guy as though he's your enemy? He's obviously doing a fantastic job destroying his own chances with the object of your affection while simultaneously making everything you do look like a gift from heaven. If anything, I'd thank him and feel a little sorry for him.

Instead of trying to knock him down, why don't you help him onto the path of being a man?

Your boy,
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Thanks for your reply!

Well I would like to state that I don't see this guy as my enemy. I mean I got nothing to lose.. She already told me that I was 10x better in everything then him. And she knows that when she goes too far with other guys, I do the same, (with girls) but I also succeed in that.

But yeah, I guess you are right. I think its the best just to help this dude because he probably is very insecure about himself.

What are you doing? (Im shaking my head) stop and take a look at the situation...I hate to give you the bad news put you need a good slap in the face to wake you up lol your eyes are glazed over with lust...I dont know you and I dont know this girl but I can bet that she is not the kind of women you should be with. why?

Alright first of all If a girl cheats on her bf with another guy and then leaves him for that guy this is a big red flag! women who do this often repeat this act....once she gets bored she will cheat or find another guy.

Second not only did she have a bf but you slept with her with in less then a week of knowing her (and remember she HAD A BF AT THE TIME) this is another red flag! mabey her bf was a dick but so what??????? she chooses to be with him either way and although she tells you he is a dick that means nothing and right now she has little or no credibility....a women who cheats has no credibility I dont care what any one says...no excuse.

third she lives miles away on top off all the other madness...

Are you in love? I dont know but my bet is you are in lust and think you are in love...people throw the word love around way to much! I dont mean to be a dick bro but open your eyes! go out and meet other women thats what pua is all about...dont get stuck on the first good looking girl you shag.

P.s If a girl wants to be with you she will make it happen....she wont say "I dont want to break up with him because he is emotional" she will say "I will do anything you want I want to be with you" sorry to say bro but it looks like she is taking both you and her bf for a ride...she is playing both of you and although she might like you she also likes him or she wouldnt be keeping him around.

Yeh I have also thought a lot about the options you state. Though I had many good conversations with her and her best girlfriends. Honestly I dont think she will ever cheat on me because she knows its over then. She knows that I can f-close multiple girls on a night out in the club because ive shown her.
But I asked for advice in the situation I will be in when I am there..

well just dont go anywere he is by the way i think what you did was sooo ethically wrong. He probably loved her a lot more than you do. You just see her as a way of getting some sex.

You broke a huge man law.

Bullshit, I didnt broke any laws.. I do love her. Just asking for advice. I mean it would be easy for me to just mentally break the dude there but I dont guess thats the right thing to do right?

*edit: just forgot something, i wouldnt drive 400 km for sex when i can get in 300 meters here right?

Listen man please listen to me...You dont love her and I can say that because I have been in a similar situation and now I look back a laugh at how dumb I was being....I now am with a women who I really do love and its much diffrent!

You are in lust with her. there is nothing wrong with that but honestly you cant be in love with somone until you really deeply know them and spend enouph time with them to know they are "the one". Break it off and go have fun...every thing always seems amazing at the start and until you see her rath, her flaws, her temper, learn about her real past, and meet the real women behind the mask. you cant say you love her. So please stop because she is playing games with you and her bf and what you are doing is wrong....it doesnt matter if you think you love her she has a bf who obvously loves her and even though she says hes a horrible guy Im sure he is not half bad....women always play the victim and that just life.

Every one here is trying to help you so please dont take offence....just end it bro I know its hard but honestly there are so many women in the world and when you meet another girl who you fall for you will be glade you ended it.

M advice to you is end it, and then the same weekend go out and meet as many good looking women as you can! ask these women to come out with your friend and you, have fun! dont sit in and think about it....before you know it you will be over her. I know I have been there...

You want him to break up with her because YOU'VE been in a similar situation? I'm very insulted by your piece of "advice" here. You do NOT know how this guy feels about the girl and you are NOT the person to tell him why he should break up with her and ignore his feelings for her.

Totally digging your reply Zentrode. Had this in my mind but didnt find a good way to form it in a text.
Let me make a statement then: IF she does fuck with me, cheat or whatever then its my problem.. I will learn the hard way (dont we all say failure is the best way to learn?) Especially for someone stubborn as me.

So to get back on topic: How to behave myself with her and her best friends (they all want to meet me and stuff because they didnt liked her ex and stuff) ?

*bump*

Don't worry too much about what those other guys are saying - people have to accept that a lot of girls go from one guy to another, and are never single. Not cause they are cheaters but they are afraid of being alone, and this is natural for a girl. They would rather be with someone they hate, than be alone. To hold this against the poor creature is to be unfeeling and ignorant. And this is also why the fact that someone has a bf should not stop you, till you are sure they are happy where they are.

You should do as you already suggested. The dude has no chance. If you help him he will respect you and be much less likely to work against you, and IMO things will be better for you and her, cause if you were to act like he's the enemy, it would show a weakness on your part.

Thanks for that mate!
Though its a bit weird because I don't think she'll happily introduce me to the dude I guess.
And maybe have some tips for when afc is getting annoying? She told he could be kinda aggro then or something..