Just wondering what people think about going out basically sarging in night clubs and bars on your own? For some reason the thought of it makes me kind of nervous and I'm just wondering as well if you approach a girl and the questions "So where are your friends?" "Who are you here with?" come up what do you say? Do you just lie and say some of my friends are around? What are peoples thoughts on this? How do you approach it?

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luck is where preparation and opportunity meet

Mystery has a line that goes something like "Let's go say hi to my friends!"

Walk around with her a while...

"I can't find them. I guess I'll let you keep my company instead."

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alones best, but you gotta be smart and quick. you cant hang around a club all hours of the night... get in there, talk to people, get the girl, get out

also there is no one out there to watch your back, so making friends early on and fast is crucial to success

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"I'm the champ!"

how easy it is making new friends at clubs then?

Yo Kimbo, whens your next fight on ultimate fighter?

It is really easy making friends in a club. Last time I was out I started talking to some guys while waiting to get in. Worked great, I used them as my friends all night, at one point I had to tell a girl that I only just met them and she didnt believe me.

Sarging alone can be great. A wing is good but alone is just fine. I do a lot of alone sarging. Why would you apologize for going out alone? You may meet up with your friends later, or they havent arrived yet or you got bored with them so you went alone.

Whenever a girl asks me who I am there with I just say, oh I came alone. I always find people to talk to, I enjoy spending time with new people, its really more interesting.

And if you are cool enough the guys will wanna know you so dont worry!

Ezo

Some really good advice here.

Got really down on myself at weekend. My game was not coming together in a club, I mean the openers worked, some better than others. My point is to be a success in a club your game needs to be really tight because there is distractions like loud music, dancing and many people also many woman are there for self attention.

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