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| Rockd | PostPosted: Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:07 pm Posts: 83 | | When the conversation starts to dwindle whats a good way to kick it off again? in my case it was a pool party and i was talking to two girls about nothing important/interesting really and then the conversation stopped and they lost interest.
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| Brah | PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 2:04 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Mon Oct 05, 2009 10:28 pm Posts: 302 Location: Los Angeles | | "hey, that reminds me" and then bust into one of style/mystery's bazillion routines that they say is a DHV.
I know that's not natural game, but you've got to have some memorized material to fall back on if you truly go blank and hit a wall.
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| Jon Paul | PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 3:57 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Mar 23, 2009 1:03 am Posts: 203 Location: UK, Liverpool | | if your realy stuck just pull out the 5 lies game or best friend routine or something. I find they spark back up a conversation. I know there canned like Brah said but they always work.
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| Owinover | PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 7:17 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Wed Oct 07, 2009 2:54 pm Posts: 70 | | Memorizing some routines that are genuinely interesting is not cheating... Memorize some DHV's or something and keep them entertained with a story. Here's natural game in a nutshell: You're using who you really are to attract women. You can still use a memorized story or two, just like you would on anyone else you meet. For example, if someone brought up a car wreck they had, you wouldnt talk to them about something arbitrary, you'd tell them about the time you were in a wreck too. _________________ Our work is never over...
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| kodierer | PostPosted: Wed Oct 28, 2009 8:47 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun Mar 02, 2008 12:26 am Posts: 139 | | Make a list of 20 interesting questions that stir non controversial conversations, and just make sure to not repeat them.
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| Astute | PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:42 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 02, 2009 4:42 am Posts: 20 Location: Australia | | Ask what her/their interests are and then ask questions relating to one of those subjects. You may be bored but she will be glad to have someone listen to her. A thing i have found i do naturally ( thanks to all those years of school ) is nod when she pauses but you don't have to continually pay attention. I do advise joking and teasing her about that interest though ( with a smile of couse ) and make sure you know a little about the topic she is interested in. The best thing to do is to get her to ask you questions. That way you don't need to think of things to talk to her about. Do this by asking something like what sort of music are you into? After she is done explaining her musical interest she is bound if interested in you ( this is an IOI ) to ask what bands your in. Of course that can be used for other subjects aswell, movies or even phone brands for example, and make sure if you ask opinions on something you agree and then say but wouldn't it be better too... etc. Hope this helps
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| Hybrid13 | PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 6:54 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Nov 05, 2009 3:47 am Posts: 31 | | I am a true natural, I have had no training what so ever, I am just good with girls, In your situation I would have LEFT them, In that situation leave them with a neg/dhv....This lets Them come back to YOU, but leaves options open pretty well and you can go do something else, talk to other people (social proof) and if they dont seek you out, you can go back after having plenty of time to think of something SITUATIONAL to talk about
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