No, not at once-
I've got a fair imagination for that, lol.

I mean to be having 3 'girlfriends'.
A nice guy- a player- a hypnotic fiend, all in one..
How would you suppose that kind of guy could progress in an openly polyamorous relationship at about the 6month point?
Generally as things get deeper, and people become closer- iv found that more and more 'shit' comes up. insecurities.. comparisons.. the whole, 'im not really sure if this is for me'..

anyone have some pointers on how to manage 3 intimate relationships while sarging and coaching a little inner game pick-up aswell?
Im a bit lost for any kind of model as to how to keep this succeeding. It seems to be coming down to my own hard work- and the fluctuations are immense. I can never keep all 3 happy at once,
I'm aware that they probably enjoy the drama and have a need for it-
but how can I just get things comfortably stable for some period of time?

Thanks

Keep 3 girls happy. Pick one and tell the other two that you found the one.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Thanks ~Jon~

but im not playin that game.

Is there anyone, anything else out there?

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

Thanks,

we've been experimenting between sharing time together aswell- various social dates and stuff, but the main problem seems to be 'who will i touch'.

Without sex or touch- everyone is fulfilled emotionally.
With sex, and touch- well, that appears to be the core challenge.

Slowly, its been acknowledged that altho the girls get along, it might not be best to be regular friends. Even though tthey've all been onvarious dates togetherm without me. The primary (longest standing g.f) is far more challenged than the other 2. This makes me wonder, what is it that is working more for them, than it is for the first.

It really makes me wonder, how much easier this would be if even 2 of them were actually attracted to each other- they're all bi-sexual, and were attracted to each others aswell, but still there are some challenges that i'd address if i knew more about them.
I stillneed slightly more of a 'map'.

ok, so maybe i've left the playpen.

polyamory forums seem to have plenty on these ideas.

just in case anyone was after that kinda lifestyle, mayb theres more to seduction than just seduction
(?)