First, let me introduce myself. I believe every method should have a bit of background on the author, so everyone can make their own judgement. I'm not proclaiming this will work for everyone, but it works for me.
I'm 18, and stumbled across the game a few months ago whilst discussing girls with this guy on thestudentroom.com; he sent me the book and I became immersed.
I had already had this method when I was a non PUA (won't say AFC as I already had a rep. as a ladies man, not a natural but not an AFC either) yet now having knowledge of the game it has helped me refine it.
Obviously this doesn't work on all girls, as not all girls are the same. Some girls will give you one word answers as understandably, many girls can't be bothered to talk to people they don't know, at which point you say something along the lines "you're going to have to try harder than that to keep my interest
" most girls will you a response paving the way further. If they just give a bland 'k' this signifies to me that they are boring; do you really want a girl like this? If, however, you want to try again, use an interesting opener in another few days/week. I do not have to give an example here, I assume people here can do this themselves.
I am actually quite selfish and attract girls on myspace for fun, just for practice, and then normally not do anything as I'm not as attracted to them as they are to me (I have really high standards). Sometimes they don't even live near me, but I do it for fun anyway. Besides, it will come in handy for when I really do meet a pretty girl on myspace!
My method works like this:
Add the girl you desire.
When she accepts, use an interesting opener, not 'how are you' - comment on something in her profile, just be different. If there's anything I've learnt whilst I've been in the game, it's be different.
EG, if she says
"cheers for the add"
I might be funny and say something like
"wow, you love accepting invites off strangers! you don't know me, i could be a rapist for all you know:)"
If you can, get a personal joke going along that you are a rapist or something like that, then get MSN on the basis that myspace is crap to talk on. If she is interested massively she will ask you for your MSN, but if she doesn't, it isn't an iod, you are male and meant to lead, so lead and get the MSN.
Once on MSN, be different. Be funny and interesting, keep the conversation going, but be genuinely interesting and different. One key line I use quite often is
"I don't know you do I?"
(this is if I skip myspace interaction and see the MSN on the myspace profile, i just add it. Interaction myspace to MSN could be seen as 'bouncing', a way of building comfort, but tbh girls are least likely to reply on myspace as it's more complex than IM programs such as MSN). She will of course respond with
"no"
in which case it is your turn to say
"i'll let you introduce yourself then" or "i'm going to base your entire character on what you say to me about you now, so no pressure
"
this always draws a response. If she goes "18 f hpool" or something say that 'you can do better than that, that was shit!' she will challenge you to do one.
Bold = me
well howa then.. lets here this 'something intresting' from you
?
ok
let me think
i count all of my friends on myspace, i think drinking is for people who disregard their liver, and i play online chess on saturday nights
byy you dont 'alf sound intresting
:P
you have myspace then... ?
oh i am, i have a horrible face disfigurement, but if you look past that i am really a beautiful person on the inside
(I added her on facebook instead of myspace)
i dare say that was much more intresting than my 'asl'
it was but i lied i'm afraid
i'm 6'2", like sports and living in newcastle in september for uni, still better than your ASL though
anar, i couldnt acatully be botheer with any converstion with you, but you seem pretty intresting to talk to now
That is what I think is known as the 'hook point' and from there on followed two hours of MSN convo where I was able to build massive comfort, and deep rapport.
I could give many examples of this, but the key phrase in that conversation is why I chose to example it. "I couldn't actually be bothered with any conversation with you, but you seem pretty interesting to talk to now". So there it is, spoken from the HB herself. Be interesting!
The next stage is where the magic comes i, I personally love it. There is no given time at which you should initiate this stage, just when you think it is natural. Only you can judge that.
The next stage is the 'questions game'. THis is when you want to build up sexual tension, and it works like a dream. You tell the girls that you will ask each other questions but you cna't ask the same question that someone else has asked (my game, my rules!) as it adds variety and is interesting.
I start by pretending that it is a really important question, then go on to say 'maccy dees or burgey k?' (mcdonalds or burger king) to which they will then ask you one back. Make them half interesting, then randomly come out with a sexual one like
"when was your first kiss?"
or if you're me, more direct like
"what is your biggest sexual fantasy?" (NLP people could probably use some of their tricks with this Q)
After that the questions just automatically escalate sexually, like I was talking to this girl last night for an hour and a half about sex and when we agreed on something I pointed out several times how 'we're so alike
'. Talking about sex also seems to build great rapport, not sure why, it just does.
After this, it's just your standard number close, more comfort, then day2. I've noticed 16 year olds are not keen on the day2 part, as I think they're still in the social conditioning of never to meet up with strangers, but older girls are out of this mindset.
Quick rundown of the method.
Select a target
Open target
MSN close
Be interesting, build up comfort
Escalate sexually with the 'questions game'
Number close
More comfort
Day2
Don't follow this a tee, sometimes I skip the first comfort if the girl looks like she is the sort of girl who wouldn't give a shit talking about sex, and just go direct with the questions game.
Whilst I realise that this isn't exactly mindblowing stuff, it works for me and it just another method out there for people to test and tweak around to fit themselves.
If you want to constructively criticise, feel free, but please; don't be arrogant or condescending.
CHAT