so heres my day:

11.00am - i start walking to university, i decide that the beach will be the best way since its nice. as im walking down two girls are walking my way (probably 5/6's) and i ignore them until their close, i look up and smile they smile back and one blushes a little (aww cute), i, not able to speach, just keep walking. FAIL#1

11.30am - get to class, see cute girl walking towards me, she walks past and smiles then looks away then looks back. i do nothing but i do notice her lovely arse. FAIL#2. i walk around realizing there is no class today so i go and get a drink. once i have my drink i notice a HB9 (seriously she looked like a arab princess), shes smoking by herself, i fancy a fag and her but i cant go and talk to her. FAIL#3

12.00pm - i start to walk around uni for a while see if anyone i know is here. i cross the road and a car full of girls stop to let me cross, they all stare and smirk (the driver is nice, the front passenger looks quite big and the i cant see to the back) and i just give them a thumbs up and cross quickly, almost running tbh. FAIL#4

13.00pm - noone's in uni so i decide to head back. a hot milf is walking towards me with her kid in the pram, first she doesnt acknowlegde me but as i walk past, she looks and gives me quite a seducing smile, once again (surprisingly) i do nothing.FAIL#5

13.20pm - as im walking down the beach, contemplating todays fails and what i should have done differently and will do next time, two girls are sitting down on a sand dune enjoying the sunny day. i walk past and one of them asks for the time, smilling along with her friend, i say '20 past 1', she says 'ooo looks like we missed our class then', i just giggle (gay) and walk off. FAIL#6

13.30pm - im almost back, but i notice a girl riding a shopping trolley coming towards me. she jumps off and says 'that was fun, i bet you think im really cool huh', 'i say yeh im jealous actually', she says (very witty) 'well jealous, im sarah' (laughs). introduce myself and ask if i can have a go, she says 'ive gotta get back to work, sadly', so i just take it as shes not inerested and just say 'okay bye then'. i start to walk off and she kinda shouts 'see you around', i look back and wave. this was the most a girl has ever come onto me, if id asked her to meet me after work she definatlely would have but i couldnt even ask for her number. FAIL#7

PATHETIC AINT I, im not looking for advice i already know what i need to do, MAN UP, i just think sharing this stuff will help me to progress. anyway thanks for reading.

Stop all that self hate, it's not going anywhere.

What did you learn her with all these 'fails'? Well that you won't get anything without talking to them. Alright, what can you do to improve that? That's right! Talk to them!

Here is my favorite opener in most of the situations you have been in: 'Hey, what's up?'. Bam! You're having a conversation. Golden!

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yeh you are right, girls need guys to initiate conversation. ive started my own little journal/study guide, its basically every encounter i have, what i did, what i should have done, what ill do next tme and various outcomes.

at the end of the day the worst thing that could happen is she turns me down and when i think about this it doesnt bother me at all, but what does bother me is what others think of me. so if a girl does reject me i feel my social value will decrease.

i am working on this e.g. today i climbed up a sand dune and just chilled out, it might not sound like much to you but it represented me doing what i wanted and not giving a fuck, i have to become tyler durden and not give a fuck.

Bateman.

I think this journal is an excellent way for you to address your shortcomings. Simply by writing these things down and expressing them to yourself you are acknowledging your problems and this is the first step towards changing.

Once you have solidified in your mind what your mistakes are, when these situations arise next time FORCE yourself to do or say anything.

Try and then fail rather than failing through not trying.

Good luck.

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dont worry im on your level. see ill say the "hey whats up" but then have nothing to say after that. so then what....

Ok first if their r tht many women around ur University dont even worry about ur mistakes youll definitely have a second chance. Seond TALK who cares wht they think if theyre going to make fun of u or whtever its sad because they dont have a man to talk to and all they have to do is tlk about u. Anyway back on subject if anything just know tht u da man and no one can take tht from u so next time u see an HB9 or any women tht ur attracted to just know tht if u tlk u have a chance. With every mistake there is a lesson to be learned

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